So this amazing girl that seems like she was kinda leading me on was just talking to me on msn, and she pretty much just asked me if I was planning on asking her out. I told her no because I heard from a friend that she told him that she didn't want me to ask her out. She told me that she had told him (lol) that it would be weird if I asked her out since I knew that she only wanted to be friends... which I didn't until just then... I really like her... possibly love her, she was actually my first kiss. I'm not stupid I know I need to get over her, I just don't know how. I actualy feel like crying right now lol. Anyways the last few days Ive been sitting and talking with her on the bus. Normally she reads on her way to school. I just had wanted to hint to her that I was really truely interested... now I dont know if I should sit with her on the bus tomorrow or just take my own seat and smile as I pass by... it was an aqward conversation, but hopefully one day I'll get over it... =*(
2007-03-20 13:26:29 · 5 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm afraid she already new that I liked her.. alot... I told her that while I was talking with her. I'll just have to face the fact that she doesn't feel how I do...
2007-03-20 13:26:44 · update #1
Ask her out. But don't tell her you love her quite yet. That could scare her out.
2007-03-20 13:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that, like so many other people in this world. Nobody can make somebody like them or love them, it has to happen naturally. You have to decide if your attraction is love or lust(probably lust at this point) but that's cool without it we wouldn't be here. I would just be yourself and be a good friend, and don't push any issues. If you turn out to be what she likes in a person, it will come together, if not, it won't, and there is nothing you can do to change her mind. The hardest thing is liking someone that isn't interested in you. You can spend a lot of time and money to no avail.
Good Luck
TT
2007-03-20 20:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say that playing hard to get might be your best bet. don't get me wrong, i'm not talking about game playing. BUT, back off a little. be elusive. trust me, it will make her become more attracted to you if she's not sure she can have you.
2007-03-24 20:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance would be your best friend in this situation, unless she actually tells you she's interested.
2007-03-20 20:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Dizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out..but don't tell her u love her yet
2007-03-20 21:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by alisha_anne2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋