I dated this girl for a year and a half and we eventually broke up because of all the problems we had. Toward the end, she would cry and say all sorts of things to me, and months later I've thought about them with a different mindset and want to see what you think. I remember as things got really bad, I kinda in a sense stopped caring about it. It wasn't that I didn't CARE, it was just I was sorta tired and kinda just let her do whatever, say whatever, etc. One of the things she said to me was, "Chris, you're not dominant anymore! The way we used to work, I would give you my opinion and feelings, and you would always listen and make what YOU felt was the best decision! I had a say because sometimes you'd go with what I wanted, and sometimes you knew you were right- I had a say, but you were the leader in it! You don't do that anymore, you just let me do whatever!" I'm dead serious she said that. I mean, that isn't word for word, but...anyway, do women really want it to be that way?
2007-01-18
16:55:41
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