I have very low self esteem and I care way to much about whether a guy thinks I'm pretty or not. It is a very big problem. It consumes most of what i think about. I am pretty to some people, but say for instance I'm attracted to a good looking guy, he does not even notice that I exist, but his much less attractive friend has a thing for me. This has happened to me a lot through the course of my life. Things like this and some other much worse things have given me low self esteem. I just wanted to know if there is anyone out there who has transended the whole low self esteem thing and just does not care what people think anymore, and I need to know how you did it. Please no mean spirited jokes, you may just see me as some one posting online but I am a person just like you and this has been a huge problem for me all of my life. I just feel like if I'm ugly that I want people to stop telling me that I'm pretty because when I look at a guy I find really attractive he looks right through me
2006-12-18
05:56:19
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Jane
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