Whats the best way a guy can check you out with his eyes?
Balancing a certain amount of respect for you the lady but also letting you know he finds you attractive
2006-12-18 06:00:04 · 8 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I think if you are paying attention to the face and smiling then thats fine. If you are zeroing in on the crotch and boobs, then that is just scary lol.
2006-12-18 14:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There IS no "best way". These days you are taking a huge risk by doing so. Just look at the comments from some females on here already. In fact, you may go so far as to be accused of "visual rape". The term is not yet in wide usage but it is growing.(1) I have personally seen men accused of such a thing on several occassions with calls for it to be made a sex-crime.
So why bother? Unless you are in that top 5% of men whom women go crazy over, you are inviting a frosty response from most, and even if you ARE in that top 5% some women will see a way to make a quick buck.
2006-12-18 19:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by Solaris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a woman i would have to say..(assuming you are pursuing a woman of class and self-respect): never let her actually see you "checking her out". then tactfully and respectfully initiate conversation with a smile and a happy medium between passive and aggressive. no real woman wants to feel like a piece of meat or an object to be beheld, especially by a stranger.
2006-12-18 17:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by jmc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Checking a woman out with his eyes" sounds a bit creepy, like staring and stalking. I would not respond to it and I would ignore his advances. A nice guy will talk topenly a woman, he will be natural and confident.
2006-12-18 14:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sinka 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
uhhh well it sounds a little weird that he shows his feelings for u, with his "eyes?". its really creepy, but w/e. umm.... he can show respect for that certain woman, by not looking at her body but her eyes. dont just look for a pretty face, or how fat or skinny they are, u can tell u like or " love" someone when u look in their eyes
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-18 21:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by name. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, approach her. If the woman is interest she will give you the chance to check her out by looking away. You will have to do the same for her.
2006-12-18 21:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He could come and talk to me, instead of creeping me out with his eyes.
2006-12-18 18:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by hvjhv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try looking into hers.
2006-12-19 10:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋