I caught myself that I don't want to have many things in my life simply because I don't want to be relied on anything or anybody but myself. When you really want something and have it, it's nice. However, when something goes wrong with it, it's a pain to part with it. Also, if you really work hard for something, and there's no guarantee that you will get it, it takes a lot of value away from it.
I also don't like setting goals because I'm not sure whether or if I will be able to follow through. Because I understand that human mind is changing all the time, I realize that what I want today, I may not want tomorrow, so if I want something, I already look at it from the point that I may not want it tomorrow, and therefore I don't want it today. And so I don't want to commit myself to doing things. Setting the goals is very hard for me, since if you don't even know if you will want something tomorrow, how can you work for it today? Tricky friggin' question....
2006-12-06
12:17:33
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