He is a paranoind, insecure, defensive, cynical, sarcastic, vengefull, egotistical, power control freak. He just got his contractors license and is allready not relating well to customers. He takes their critisisms and change of hearts (oh no, this doesnt look like I thought it would) and percieves it as (man, you really suck at this and you better do something about it for free). In doing so he feels attacked and reacts accordingly with all the afforementioned traits at work especially coming off obnoxious and rude and ultimately threatening and yet he honestly feels it is THEM that is the problem. I see trainwreck after trainwreck if he doesnt either learn how to handle "the customer" or recognize his major character flaws (which have often been cause for him to become physically abusive with me as I merely attempt to explain these types of situations thinking I am now attacking him and accusing him of being inept. It didnt matter when it was just me but now it concerns our life
2006-08-10
11:03:49
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