ok i am more like a tom boy so guys look at me as a best friend but i want to be more then that
2006-08-10 12:01:55 · 22 answers · asked by tornado_goddess90 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
You just don't seem to get it.....first the tomboy thing....now this? Doesn't everyone know that wierd people are better in bed? Damn, you really are not meeting the right guys. Hell, maybe the problem is that you haven't met me yet.....
2006-08-10 18:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by stringemuphigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, what you consider to be wierd, is actually just called "Character", and you sound like you have it. My advice is not to fake being more feminine or anything like that to try and attract guys, because they will see the fakeness and be turned off by it. To me, and most other men, we find that confidence is a HUGE factor in the whole attraction of the opposite sex thing. Be Confident, and most importantly...be real. Any guy worth your time will see how great you are, and Voila!! Next thing you know your datebook has more appointments than a vegas call-girl. j/k
2006-08-10 19:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ronijn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, check this out....you know Vanessa from MTV TRL? She's a bit of a tomboy. The trick about being a tomboy is to never lose that part of you, but add the girly stuff... the heels, the tight shirts etc. Guys LOVE a girl who is sexy/cute, but still a tomboy. Nick Lachey fell for Vanessa for many reasons, but part of it was her tomboyish love of sports! She's like a football freak and Nick thinks that's hot! Just glam it up by hanging with the girls a bit more (doing makeover etc), and guys will go crazy for you! :)
2006-08-10 19:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Flyleaf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys, like myself, actually PREFER the weird/eccentric girls. Some advice for you, though, is to be more direct, and be comfortable with yourself enough to just tell a guy that you're interested in him. You see, guys sort of assume that tom boy types aren't interested in dating, so they don't even bother trying. Understand? Just make it clear that you'd like to date him.
2006-08-10 19:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by Brianman3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody likes a challenge when it comes to relationships. And the biggest challenge for most of us is to find someone who sincerely likes themselves and gives off a natural air of confidence. When we meet someone like that, it is somewhat comforting and we want to be accepted by that type of person so they automatically become attractive to others. Most people are secretly insecure with some aspect of themselves and want to be more like the confident person they see
2006-08-10 20:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tom boy isn't THAT bad. you cud be friends with them and work your way to the top. or you cud try to change your appearace a little bit a day until you look like a half-girlie girl and half-tom boy. a "tom girl" i guess. srry if i didn't help...
2006-08-10 19:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by Em 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oneday you'll find the right guy. But if you just want to flirt around for awhile when you go somewhere with them where something more girly. But my advice is to be yourself a relationship of lies is one heading towards disaster
2006-08-10 19:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start to wear your hair up really nice, Start wearing more feminin clothes and get a little less sporty. And start flirting with some guys.
2006-08-10 21:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by Alyssa s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress a bit more feminine. shower every day and use light perfume. A touch of lip gloss goes a long way too. Stand up straight and walk with confidence. Love yourself first, then they will follow.
Good luck
2006-08-10 19:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by Dee 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't push it. You will find the right one in time. Have you put yourself as dating material or just pure tomboy btw? That could have something to do with it to.
2006-08-10 19:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋