Must we be good or bad boys and why is that ?

Question

Must we be crucial and antisocial in order to survive, or polite, weak and glee?
Things are absolute ?

Answer 1

You must be polite but strong.

Answer 2

Most women when asked what kind of man they want will tell you that there is an attraction to the "bad boy" type. There is a certain sense of mystery surrounding that kind of guy. When I met my boyfriend for the first time(we broke up stayed apart 18yrs and have been back together now for 3 yrs) he had on his Harley shirt, vest, with the big ole wallet with the chain and the long hair and beard, it was love at first site. Now he's 46, he's still a biker , still wears Harley gear but the long hair is short, the beard is neat and trimmed, and he wears bifocals now.LOL my "badboy" has turned out to be a pretty nice man, but the image still lingers.

Answer 3

There's a great book written for men called "Wild at Heart" by John Eldridge. It is written from a Christian perspective, but even if you don't agree with the aspects of faith, any man could really benefit from the book. It makes the assumption that there is something in the soul of a man that is so different from that of women, and that society and culture have forced men to be "good boys" with the end result that they have become bored and unfulfilled in their lives. It is not about machismo, but is about the lack of adventure in most men's lives. Society has tried to make them into women with all the "sensitivity" expectations, but men crave more. It's a great read, whether you agree with the Christian theme or choose to disregard that part.

Answer 4

This is what rational humans have learned so far about "goodness" and "badness" : In the Beginning there was Light. The stuff of "Light" is Photons, tiny bundles of pure energy. Photons fly very fast in waves. We call those flying photon waves the "Electromagnetic Spectrum". We call it a spectrum because the waves of photons can be close together, far apart and of inbetween lenghts. We have tools that can measure the wavelengths of the Electromagnetic Spectrum. Some photon waves are over 50 km apart. We humans call those kind of far-apart waves, "Radio waves". Some photon waves are very close together, such as gamma rays, X-rays, and microwaves. We humans cannot see most wavelengths of photons. We see only a small range of the Electromagnetic Spectrum and we call those wavelengths, " Visible Light".
Photons can spin together and become what we call "matter". And, "matter" can change back into photons. E= mc2 .Two photons spin and shimmer together and form a particle of "matter" that we call an electron. Other photons can spin and shimmer together and form other particles that we also give names to, such as protons and neutrons. Particles can spin and shimmer together in families called "atoms", or, molecules. Molecules can spin and shimmer together and form elements, such as hydrogen, oxygen, gold, copper, etc. Elements can spin and shimmer together in compounds. And, compounds can spin and shimmer into organic compounds. Organic compounds can spin and shimmer together in ever increasing complexity of nervous systems and perceptionary senses. We humans are photons, amassed in a very complex form, capable of consciousness and perception, perhaps, so that whatever we are a part of may perceive itself. Our form possesses one of the most complex photonic organizations that we have found in nature so far. . . the human central nervous system. The central nervous system is electrical and has pathways for electricity to flow. "Electricity" is photons in the form of electron particles all in a flow. From our physical consciousness . . . our electrical brain activity . . . we emit waves of photons that we call "brainwaves". Brainwaves are a part of the Electromagnetic Spectum of photons. Brainwaves have different wavelengths for different thoughts and feelings that we have. Everything, all matter, organic or inorganic, emits photonic waves. The difference between the emissions from a rock and the emissions from life is "complexity" . . . life emits more complex photon waves than does a rock. Waves from everything ripple through each other in extraordinary patterns of waves that interfer with each other, like musical chords. Research about how we perceive "beauty" reveals that we perceive "beauty" when our brain's photon waves AND the photon waves being emitted by the rose ripple over each other and "harmonize" in a way pleasing to our electrical nervous systems. Some "compositions" of photon waves are pleasing to us. Some are not. The compositions that please us, we call "goodness". The compositions that we do not like, we call "badness". The compositions of nature add up and can be measured. There is a kind of "default" composition, the composition of everything everywhere. . . God, if you like. The brainwave that we humans emit that most closely matches that universal harmony, is found when we humans think and feel "COMPASSIONATELY". If photons amass in ever greater complexity, and, the height of complexity that we know about so far is the human mind and our photonic emissions, and our most harmonious photonic emission is "compassion", I would think that answers your question about "goodness" and "badness".

Answer 5

Weakness leads to destruction.

Answer 6

Maybe a better question is...

Should we be bad and spend 20 years of our life in jail?
Or should we be good and live in freedom?

Answer 7

a mixture of both. You dont want to be a hard ass and u dont wanna be a baby. Just be a man and look out for ureself!

Answer 8

it's good to be nice and social most of the time but whenj its the right time then yoyu can act anti social but if you feel like you cant then dont

Answer 9

well im a bad boy

Answer 10

You gotta eat them 'fore they eat you homie that's how you surivive the mutha*ucka.