Before we got married, my husband said he'd like to have at least one child. He knew I wanted more, but I was willing to accept to have just one. Seven years later (and 3 years of trying but not being successful) he's decided that he doesn't want a child. Unfortunately for me, though, I think that's the right decision for him. I don't know what breaks my heart more....that we aren't getting pregnant or that he doesn't want to. I can't force him into something like this...that isn't right at all. Divorce is not an option...I love him, and besides, even if we did divorce what if I can't conceive....where would that get me? I'm trying to accept this, our vows are very sacred to me. However, I don't feel in the mood much because it is a horrendous reminder that 1)we are having unprotected sex but not getting pregnant and 2) he doesn't want a child of our own. How do I cope?
2006-06-27
10:45:58
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julmer0904
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