From the beginning of my pregnancy, I've just had this feeling that my baby was a boy. Every sign pointed to the baby being a boy, the doctor even thought the baby may have been a boy, but wasn't able to tell for sure because the baby is uncooperative during ultrasounds. However, a couple of days ago, it was confirmed that I'm having a girl.
Needless to say, I am disappointed, & I feel like I have to get to know my baby all over again. I feel guilty enough for feeling this way, because I know I'm very lucky that my baby is healthy, I'm lucky I can even have a baby. But now I have everyone in my family, including my fiance, acting like I'm going to be a bad parent to my child simply because of the way I feel now.
I love the baby with all my heart, but like I said, I almost feel like I don't even know the little person I've been carrying for almost 8 months. Has anyone ever felt this way? How did you cope? It's really getting to me.
2007-12-30
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