I've just found out that I'm eight weeks pregnant and I'm scared. I want an abortion but I don't know what's going to happen. My mum's dead and my dad's disowned me. Can anyone help me?
2007-12-30 07:08:03 · 17 answers · asked by Laura W 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am so sorry that u are having such a hard time. Ultimately having an abortion is your decision to make. What you think is best for you. Personally, I am pro life, and I think that there are better choices than abortion, but you have to do what is right for you. Have u talked to anybody about your feelings? If not, you should
2007-12-30 07:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this decision is totally down to u hun...
if u really want an abortion then go see ur doctor an they can help you with everything..
alternatively, u could wait a few more weeks an then see how u feel about it all... the last thing u want to do is make a quick decision, an regret it. maybe go to mohercare, or any baby shops an have a look around.. look at toys, clothing, and see how you feel about it all, an about having a baby... if u still feel that u dont want a baby in a few weeks time, then go through with an abortion.
you should talk to a good girl friend about this, one that'll support u any decision u make..
i hope u make the right decision for urself, and everything turns out ok..
2007-12-30 15:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by xButterflyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and to someone right away! A doctor/nurse or family planning clinic. Abortion is physically easier the earlier it is done. And they usually require you to undergo some counselling before they will give you one. Be sure, absolutely sure, it is what you want to do. Don't let anyone try to persuade you to do something you don't want to.
What about the baby's dad? What kind of relationship do you have with him? Will he be supportive? I know you don't have your parents, but do you have any siblings? or grand parents? Any family at all to have on your side? You need someone to support you through anything you decide to do.
Good luck, I'll be thinking of you.
xx
2007-12-30 15:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abortion is not your only option. To end the life of a little life because you were irresponsible is wrong.
This site will show you what you would be destroying.
http://pregnancy.org/pregnancy/fetaldevelopment1.php
If you really feel you cannot keep the baby, there are many people out there who are not able to have children and would love to adopt.
2007-12-30 15:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by LoveBeingAMum 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not the baby's fault that you were irresponsible. You shouldn't punish him or her for it.
I was never really anti-abortion until I got pregnant and saw my little one on the sonogram screen. Your baby already has all these body parts developing. He or she is a person. It's just wrong to kill your child because you don't know what else to do. Please think it over.
That baby could end up becoming your entire life. It must be lonely without supportive parents- you could use this chance to offer your child what you didn't have. Make her your world.
2007-12-30 15:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by Rigby R 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You seem to be a teenager (as you also posted this question in Teen and Preteen). All I'm going to say is, apart from what I posted in that section, is this young lady is a bit young to be continuing with a pregnancy. If this is what you want then you should not be judged.
I'm sorry to hear about your family consequences, hopefully things will turn out better for you soon.
2007-12-30 15:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey
My advice is it is 100% your decision, do not feel pressured by anyone to do anything, go with what you want because ultimately its down to you and no one else.
Where is the father? Can you talk to him? I also suggest you go to your gp and chat to him/her about your options but dont feel bullied into doing what some one else thinks is right.
Good luck x
2007-12-30 15:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by String 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do not get an abortion, it is not fair to the child. The baby did not do anything to deserve being aborted.
If you do not want the child, give the baby up for adoption.
Abortion is murder!
Do you want to be labeled a murderer?
Maybe you can live with your self but I think it is disgusting!
2007-12-30 15:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by abs 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Although I don't believe in abortions you have to do what's best for you. Please think this fully through because this is a decision you can't undo. Good luck to you and if you get the abortion please try SAFE SEX next time so this doesn't happen again.
2007-12-30 15:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by MrS.WilSoN 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to your doctor - they can start the process rolling for you. Good luck.
2007-12-30 15:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by Sal*UK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋