I'm not wanting a baby shower - this is my second pregnancy and with my first I had two thrown for me. I just want to do something intimate, like with only family - no friends - where I cook dinner and serve desert and they bring little baby item gifts (like lotions, and babywash, diapers.. not clothes or more expensive things) Another reason I want to do this is because, in my son's scrapbook, with the two baby showers, it looks like people were WAY excited that he was coming - if we don't do anything for this baby, I'm afraid that when he/she is older, like 5 or 6, he/she will wonder why everyone was excited about older brother, but not him/her. I don't want one feeling less important than the other...
Here's the thing: No one in my family has mentioned a thing about this. Is it okay for me to send out email invites to them for this, if I cook and everything, or will it seem rude of me since I'm the pregnant one?
2007-10-12
12:32:35
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