My husband is not one to push. When I met him he said he never wanted to get married and never wanted to have kids. For the next 9 months i NEVER brought up marraige or kids and he ended up proposing to me...he also said, he was happy that I didn't ever pressure him.
We've now been married for a little over a year. I am 24, he is 34. I want a baby soooo badly. He...well, he keeps saying stuff like, "When you're pregnant..." or he points to a pregnant woman and says, "That will be you one day." or he writes to his friend who just had a baby, "Can't wait to have one of our own someday."
I quit smoking and drinking and started dieting and exercising. I am ready...but I don't want to pressure him...I think he wants to have a baby, but is he just saying that to keep my hopes up? What makes me say that is that I told him I wanted a baby when I was 24 a few years ago....well, now that can't happen and he doesn't ever bring it up?
2007-10-13
11:52:55
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