we were together for almost 8 months.... and i have a 6 1/2 month old son and im 17 and hes about to turn 20
2007-10-13 17:35:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Why harm an innocent baby due to you guys wrong doing? its all understandable your a young mom (nothing is wrong with that cause it has YOUNGER than you are) and its really sweet to see that you kept your first baby, so why wanna go and "Throw away" this one? to spite him? please dont let the baby fall victim to you guys break up. If you do not want to keep the baby at least have it and then give it up for adoption, a lot of married couples have been trying to get pregnant and cant.....
2007-10-13 17:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sasha b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not have an abortion just because you two broke up that is an awful idea.A baby should not have to die.They are the most precious things in the world and I dont see why anyone would want to do something like that to there baby that is murder.I can see why someone as young as yourself would be so selfish.Please,do not have a abortion I am sure that you would regret it for the rest of your life.If you do not want to keep it there are plenty of people out there who can not have children that would love to have it.
2007-10-13 17:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by jaguarjake2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your gonna get an abortion just because your man left you, then maybe you should use protection next time. abortion is no joke, thats a life, after the first month theres a heartbeat, think about that. if the jackass that left you doesnt want a kid screw him. dont kill an a tiny life just because of him, sorry to sound mean but iv been in your shoes, i got pregnant at 16 and told the guy of 2 years who i was with, he wouldnt talk to me for 2 days then called me and said i have 400 bucks so you can get an abortion, he was an asshole and i never saw him again. dont get an abortion unless theres an absolute need for it
2007-10-13 17:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that abortion is okay then that's fine, do it. if you feel you should do it, then do it. if you can live with yourself than do it. If not .... don't do it.
be aware that the experience of having an abortion isn't a good one, but there is a chance you might not regret it. I suggest you just do some research. I come across a lot of abortion stories where people say they really regret having an abortion.... who knows, it's all up to you. thats YOUR choice. just dont make a decision based on other peoples opinion, you have to do what you can do... no matter what that means.
2007-10-13 17:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by babymama. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have one, an abortion is really a harsh decision to make just because you got nto a fight. Does he know, if he doesn tell him and see how things go from there. if you cant work it out or he doesnt want it and you now you cant handle it, adoption is a good route. There are alot of people who want babies that cant have them.
2007-10-13 17:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by cindy s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny... whatever you do.. do not get an abortion. How can you say it so carelessly?? "should i get an abortion or what".
having an abortion may seem like an easy way out... but it is seriously murder. you are not taking the easy way.. you are killing your baby. Say you are pregnant... you will literally be taking the life of your baby. I am not one of those people who talk like this.. i have just been through this first hand so do not do it.
2007-10-13 17:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Blessed to be a Mama! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should keep ur baby u have a child to him and u also dont want to put an added stress to ur situaton by breaking up with ur man being a single mom and having an abortion, and u never know u guys might end up back together.
2007-10-13 17:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by melly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not. It's not the babies fault you had a fight and are having babies so young. Deal with it.
Options:
1. Adoption
2. Keep the baby, get child support from both dads
3. Don't have sex again for many years.
2007-10-13 17:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by paperpenandtea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to the people up there ^^^^ it is not completely your fault and you should not feel bad. but you must decide. DO YOU WANT THIS KID? if yes then stick to it and talk to this boyfriend of yours and have him support. if he intends not to collaborate then you must let him know that he is part of the situation and how he is the one to get you pregnant in the first place. i am not telling you to keep the baby. or to kill it. it is all your choice. no one is to tell you what is right and what is wrong. it is your situation.
2007-10-13 17:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by BABE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a decision you can push off on anyone else. In the end you have to live with yourself and you don't answer to us. This is between you and whoever/whatever you do answer to.
2007-10-13 17:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by t79a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋