So... I know I shouldn't really meddle but how do I respond?
Ever sinse she met the possible father of the baby she has practically forgotten who her friends are.
Do I support her choice (as I know she is against abortion), give my honest opinion (abort the opportunity preventing bunch of cells, you're young and you have things to do before such a commitment).
She doesn't really talk to us anymore. I'm not supportive of her silly relationship with this boy, he doesnt make her happy. But I have never been in one my self, and I always think with my head, giving harsh judgments. She, on the other hand, thinks with her heart and forgets the seriousness of situations.
How should I respond so I can let her know that I wont abandon her friendship?
2007-10-12 17:28:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
STOP POSTING THE SAME QUESTION.
2007-10-12 17:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by N and A's Momma 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I hope and pray that your relationship with your friend will not end- however I must say something to you- PLEASE SUPPORT HER DECISION , if she is pregnant and wants to carry her baby to term. At 16 that is a very mature decision- by the way those bunch of cells you are talking about is a baby- at 3 weeks after conception that "cell" has a beating heart? NO a live baby does. She may think with her heart, but she certainly is thinking rightly when she will not abort- she chose to have sex far too early- wrong choice, however she does not have to pile on another mistake by taking the life of the innocent child that was conceived out of her relationship. Tell her you love her, and want to be there for her. plain and simple
2007-10-13 01:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you are there for her. And if she is pregnant and doesn't believe in abortion then get excited about the pregnancy with her. Support her decisions and show her that you will be with her every step of the way. Don't preach to her, at the end of the day it is her decision about what she will do.
At the end of the day just be there for her.
2007-10-13 00:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sociology_Is_My_Life 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Ask her if she thinks shes pregnaunt.
2. Ask if shes taking Birth Control.
3. Explain/Talk about the situtation exactly how you just asked everyone.
4. Don't give her harsh judgement, let her do most of the talking and comment on it.
2007-10-13 00:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by itskristynahun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about the pregnancy then tell her that despite how you feel, you will support whatever choice she decides and will be there for her and help her anyway you can. Just be a friend.
2007-10-13 00:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The " opportunity preventing bunch of cells " is human life. What if your mother thought like you? And after the murder, and you lay awake at night crying and wondering what your baby would have looked like and why did you do that just to make things easier on yourself. Do your friend a favor and don't be her friend.
2007-10-13 00:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by Justin Case 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Abortion is wrong, and if she's pro-life, you should RESPECT her decision. I know I could never murder my baby, no matter how it was conceived.
As for the friendship, just let her know you are there for her and support her decisions, no matter how "silly" you think they are. You are not in any place to judge, so just relax and let it go, and just listen and be a shoulder for her to cry on when she needs it.
2007-10-13 00:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by ShaunaMae 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No, I don't think you should tell her to have an abortion, it's her choice and quite frankly she needs to take responsibility. Just let her know that you are still her friend and you want to talk to her.
2007-10-13 00:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
From your post, your friend has already answered your question.
2007-10-13 01:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by poorsias 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK IF SHE YOUR BEST FRIEND YOU SHOULD STICK BY HER NO MATTER WHAT DO NOT ABANDON HER LOVE HER AND STAY FRIENDS IT MIGHT BE THE BEST THING YOU EVER DID.
2007-10-13 01:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by shawna_cleveland 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SHE WILL FORGET YOU FOR NOW AS WE ALL DO WHEN WE GET A GUY AND YOU JUST TELL HER THAT NOMATTER WHAT YOU WILL BE THERE IN THE END ...
2007-10-13 01:32:30 · answer #11 · answered by ajgbjl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋