Hi, I am currently studying at Harvard (will be my final year in the fall) and I just found out that I'm pregnant. Although, when I graduate I'm going for my PhD after as well. I was shocked because my boyfriend and I were always careful. He is going into his second year of Harvard med next year, and wants to keep the baby. I told him this would nearly destroy his career or at least delay it very much. I thought abortion but he would never go for that. I know there is no way I could raise a baby properly while we were both still in school, but he thinks we can do it. He wants to be an oncologist, so I know that will require a fellowship, etc and he will be very busy even 5-10 years after he graduates.
I know he's the one I'm going to marry, we've been dating about 3 years, but I want him to fufill his dream. How can I explain to him that adoption/abortion is the best thing for us?
Thank you to anyone who responds to this.
2007-07-17
14:52:03
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