2007-07-17 10:20:03 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
So you just want to break up with her because she's pregnant?
Might I suggest a vow of celibacy. A permanent vow of celibacy. It's better for you not to have sex at all than to willfully father children (by willfully having sex, knowing that birth control is not 100% effective) and then abandon them and their mothers.
2007-07-17 10:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by sparki777 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-06 01:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up and be a man! You need to take care of your responsibilities and love your girlfriend and unborn child. What would be your reasoning for breaking-up with her? just because she's pregnant? Do you think she wants to do this alone? This is the time she needs you the most and all your worried about is finding the best way to break up with her? You have issues and I'm pretty sure your girlfriend could do bad all by herself. You don't need to be causing her stress, what you need to be doing is figuring out how your going to make it work and be there as a family...
Do you really love your girlfriend? If yes is your answer than why are you so ready to leave her. Your suppose to be with her no matter what. Honestly, breaking up with her isn't going to solve anything, it's going to make things harder if your only reason for leaving her now is because she's pregnant. What does love mean to you?!?!
2007-07-17 12:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by **Shan** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? You say that you Love Her? She is going to have your baby, that is something Pretty Special.
What is the problem?
There is something that you are leaving out of this picture.
If you Truly Love her like you say you do, why in the world would you want to break up with her? You should Be There for Her and Your Baby . I'm not for sure what you are thinking,but I don't think that you will get a lot of support or positive answers here. You Need to talk to a minster or a counselor, before you go and mess things up, and Hurt a Lot of people Very Badly. Good Luck to You All, Prayers will be with you to make the Right Decision.
2007-07-17 10:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you better kiss her feet and tell her how sorry you are for being a retard and getting her pregnant.
what is wrong with you kids. USE PROTECTION. is that hard to grab a condom? NO.
is it hard to take a pill every morning? NO.
You need to grow up.
You need to take responsibility of your mistake.
You need to be a father.
Dumping your girlfriend is only going to make her KEEP THE CHILD FROM YOU.
Do you want to have a child out there who has no idea who you are because you were a moron and ditched their mother?
What if she's having a son? BOYS NEED THEIR FATHERS.
What if she's having a daughter? GIRLS NEED THEIR FATHERS AS ROLE MODELS FOR MEN TO DATE.
YOU'RE NOT JUST DITCHING YOUR GIRLFRIEND. YOU ARE DITCHING YOU OWN CHILD.
THAT IS NOT OKAY.
2007-07-17 10:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Poopy mcpoop?? I cant take this question completely serious.. although I seen a previous question of yours asking how to FORCE your gf to get an abortion. You can not force a person to do something they do not want to do. If you "love" her you would be best off leaving her because all you will do is drag her down. If this is a real question good luck paying the child support buddy.
edit- nice question you had earlier.... you pee yourself when you drink to much,,,, they have diapers for that issue
2007-07-17 10:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Indiana Raven 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are poopy (id say something else) for even saying you love her , pregnant, and "best" way to break up with her all in the same paragraph......Be a freakin' man and deal with it... You made the decision to have sex with the girl and now your probably scared of what your home boys might think....Get over it..suck it up and be responsible for the things youve done...She is probably scared too! Stop thinking of yourself and think of YOUR baby and the woman who is carrying him/her....Whoever your g/f is I hope her the best along with the poor lil baby you just want to forget about....
UGH men...or should i say BOYS
2007-07-17 10:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by ScareRah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and tell her this:
"I am an immature selfish ******. I acted like an adult when I screwed you, but now I'd like to revert to my carefree days of boyhood. So, I'm going to let you go on your way now. However, here's my address for the child support office. I really don't want a bench warrant and cops coming to get me while I am in the middle of impregnating the next girl I pretend to care about."
2007-07-17 10:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Teresa 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Step up and be a man. Take care of your responsibility. How old are you 14?? If you love her, you wouldnt even be thinking of this. Pregnancy can be overwhelming when you arent prepared for it, but hey you were there to make the baby and could have prevented it. Get a job buddy, youre going to need it to pay that support, medical bills, diapers, formula and etc. Get a vasectomy if you cant be responsible.
2007-07-17 10:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by curiousangel73 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are such a sad excuse for a human being! If you are not man enough to deal with the consequences of having sex you shouldnt be doing it. How dare you leave your girlfriend whom you "love" bc she is carrying your child! You are an asshole!
2007-07-17 10:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by ღMomma to Mackenzie Grace!ღ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋