My husband and I are trying to conceive. We are both excited about this event, though during conversations about telling him of the big news, he has expressed to me that he may first react with a scared look or something. I am absolutely terrified of how to tell him when I do become pregnant. I don't want to feel like he isn't happy about it, even though he did say he is and will be, but I know his first reaction will be a scared one, and I know how that will affect me seeing his first reaction, as you can imagine, I will want his first reaction to be happy, though I cannot control that. So, I have been trying to think of ways to tell him without having to see his first reaction. I know this may sound a little selfish, but its a big deal to me too, and I don't want the news of our first child to be negative in any way. Any info would be much appreciated.
2007-03-06
07:53:45
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