hi there, i'm hoping someone can help or at least offer me some advice. i'm 17 weeks pregnant and i'm not sure what is going on with my boyfriend, that is if we still are together because i haven't seen him since nov 8. i found out in oct that i'm pregnant and told my b/f that same month. we are both in our late 20's and have been together for almost 3 years. we have a good relationship and i love him very much but this pregnancy was unexpected as i was on the pill but also taking antibiotics for an infection which apparently contributed to the pill failing. anyways, the last time i heard from my b/f was in an email on nov 19th as we are both too scared to call each other now, which , i know is totally stupid. he hi there, i'm hoping someone can help or at least offer me some advice. i'm 17 weeks pregnant and i'm not sure what is going on with my boyfriend, that is if we still are together because i haven't seen him since nov 8. i found out in oct that i'm pregnant and told my b/f that same month. we are both in our late 20's and have been together for almost 3 years. we have a good relationship and i love him very much but this pregnancy was unexpected as i was on the pill but also taking antibiotics for an infection which apparently contributed to the pill failing. anyways, the last time i heard from my b/f was in an email on nov 19th as we are both too scared to call each other now, which , i know is totally stupid. he told he is scared to death which is to be expected but he also told me he wants things to work out between us and is not going to wallk out on me. he also told me he loves me and without me, he has nothing...he just doesn't know what to do about it and feels he's not ready to be a father. i didn't think i was ready either until i saw the baby on the ultrasound and hearing the baby's heart made me change my mind. i emailed him twice with the last one this past fri basically wanting to know what's going on with him, if he really does love me or if he's walking away...he hasn't reponded at all. i'm really scared and don't know what to do. i'm sorry if i'm rambling in this post but i need some advice. thank you
2006-12-06
07:35:34
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