Is it possible? I'm at a loss..Could someone help?

Question

I have been sexually active for only about 2 and a half months..
((been with him for over a year now))
He is my first && I am his first. We have had unprotected sex everytime we have done it && he has never pulled out.
&& for the last two months my period hasnt been normal, but I have still had it. Normally its a full 7 days && its only be about 4 days long. I have spotted some. No sore breasts or anything like that..but I have gotten sick && my back hurts.. I know it is possible to have your period && still be pg.. I havent taken a test or anything because I have gotten my period every time..&& I havent acted like I was pg other than the sickness && my back hurting.. I know the wise thing to do would be go to the doctor..But my boyfriend is going to be gone for a couple days && I would rather wait until he returns before I do anything..Any advice? Is it more than likely that I am pg?

Answer 1

Go down to the grocery store and buy a test while he is gone then make an appointment for when he gets back.

Answer 2

First I know you don't want to hear this but what were you thinking. YOu sound really young and you're having sex without protection. YOu are too young to even be having sex. Yes I know there is no age requirement but if you're not mature enough to take care of what could be the consequences you shouldn't be having a sex and especially unprotected sex. THis is all opinion so ignore it if you must. Remember this today yesterday remember everything you're feeling the fear the sadness that you feel inside remember it all next time you decide to sleep with your BOYfriend hopefully that will change your mind.

Kids sometimes think adults are full of crap and we don't know what we're talking about but we say it because we know. Trust me from personal experience you should not be having unprotected sex. Enjoy your youth go to the mall go to the movies be with your friends do fun things don't be locked up in a room with some boy having unprotected sex and complicating your life. I wish I would have enjoyed my youth more rather than being all caught up on some guy who I haven't spoken to now for 5 or 6 years. Trust me BE YOUNG!


Well you got your period which hopefully means you're not pregnant but the best way to be at peace would be to go to the drug store and buy a home pregnancy test. They're fairly inexpensive and you'll know the results in less than 5 minutes. Do it sooner rather than later or you'll just be driving yourself crazy with questions.

Answer 3

Actually the wise thing to do would be to use birth control, seeing as you've not figured that out yet the next best thing would be to see a doctor.

While you wait for you b/f to be available, You could try a home test kit and see what result you get, if its negative and youre still feeling like you have pregnancy symptoms, wait a week and do another.

If it is positive go and see your doc and get information on pregnancy care. If its negative go and see a doc about contraceptive methods.

Personally I dont think you are pregnant, but unless youre trying to be you will eventually be in for the worst shock of your life if you dont start to use some form of contraception.

Karma.
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Answer 4

It's rare to get your period while you are pregnant but it has happened. You may also have implantation bleeding as well. And I can tell you for a fact that you can have your period while pregnant - or what LOOKS like a period (it's not technically your period because your lining is not shedding like it does when you have a period). Anyway, you really are not being smart about your sexual relationship. You don't need me to tell you that, but there is absolutely no reason for you to not be using protection. So it is very possible... VERY possible that you are pregnant. Time to take a test. I would do it now, before your boyfriend goes away for a couple of days.

Answer 5

No way to know whether you are pregnant unless you take a home pregnancy test or visit the doctor. Either way, you should definitely RUN don't walk to your local drug store and get on prenatal vitamins to prevent birth defects. Since you are trying to get pregnant, you should already be on prenatal vitamins and should be acting as though you are already pregnant (avoid caffeine, nicotine, second-hand smoke, alcohol, and over-the counter and prescription medications and all drugs).

But I have a question: do and your boyfriend both feel ready and committed to raising a baby for the next 21 years?

It sure sounds like you are trying to get pregnant. If not, get some birth control pills, dear.

Answer 6

Get an EPT first of all. Next, at least make an appointment with your doc - you can schedule it for after your BF returns.

And if you're NOT pregnant, then you really should consider being more responsible. It doesn't sound to me like you WANT to be pregnant, so why risk it? Get reliable BC - either something you control (the shot, patch, pill, etc) or use condoms or a diaphragm. Either way, let this be a lesson to you!

Answer 7

i would not say more than likely but it is possible. the periods can be messed up because you have become sexually active. and i suggest going to the doctor since you have become sexually active even if you don't think you're pregnant. it's just precautionary. you should also consider using protection or at least birth control because even if he was pulling out you could still get pregnant. a man pre ejaculates during sex and can at any time during sex not necessarily close to the end of your act.

Answer 8

It is very likely that you are pregnant or you could have an std. You should really take a pregnancy test and if it is negative you should go to a clinic and get tested for std's just to be on the safe side.

Answer 9

of course you could be pregnant!!!...if you dont want to bepregnant then you shouldnt have unprotected sex...take the pill!!
however , it is also perfectly normal for your cycle to become irregular or change after your first sexual incouter!! they may change for less obvious reason in the future!
be careful and please see a doctor ; not only to check if your pregnant ; for some sort of contraceptive!!

good luck!

Answer 10

YOU MAY BE. GET A BLOOD TEST AND A URINE TEST DONE WHEN HE COMES BACK. GOOD LUCK