A girl that I slept with nine months ago recently gave birth to a baby girl two days ago. Thing is, I hadn't talked to this girl in eight months prior to her telling me last week that the baby was due any day now. She claims that I'm the father, I want to believe her but I know too many people who have been in situations where they find out months and years later that the child isn't theirs. Due to their situations, and the fact that I haven't talked to this girl in months before she gave birth, I asked for a paternity test. She agreed, but is still trying to pressure me to take an active role in the baby's life. I went and saw the child yesterday, and will go visit and spend time with her in the near future, but I refuse to contribute moneywise to the situation until I know for sure the child is mine. I am getting constant pressure from her and her family because of my stance. What should I do?
2007-01-12
10:16:52
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Brooks A
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