I am asking a lot of kiddie queries because I have been deemed by the courts to be the custodian of my crackhead sisters infant child. I have no kids of my own, and I really am not feeling this, but, if I don't take Jan'ai (my neice) she will go into foster care. I have made so many plans with my husband. We were due to vacation in Mexico this next month, about the fourth of July. But now, I have to go buy diapers and some special milk Ja'nai has to have called (nutramagen) sp? Set up a nursery, and get ready to play mamma when I am not ready to. I feel like, if she wanted to live the streetlife, she should have never gotten pregnant. Now, my husband and I (who are in the military) have to adopt and care for this 4 month old crackbaby. I don't even know where to begin. Everything gets finalized next week, and she comes home. How do I be a mother to a baby I have never even met, or birthed? I never even had a kitten. I'm scared.
2006-06-29
16:02:10
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