Adolescent - December 2007

Just wrote a question about this more...But have to ask something along the same lines...
I know i hate it when kids cry and are upset...4 and 2..But I know I have to suck it up and they will be ok.
Im thinking this is a problem for my sister and her teen. Since I dont see how shes hasnt been grounded for longer period of times for attitude, disrespect, back talk, ect...
Also this 14 yr old..About 2 yrs ago - attemped to drink bleach cuz she got caught skipping school and was in trouble...More orless a cry for help, IMO. She had meds and meetgins for awhile, Dont think anymore. But Im thinking is this a fear in some teenagers parents - Afraid to disapline the teens in fear they will hurt themselves...

2007-12-28 03:05:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My neice is 14. Since my sister is the only one Im close to that has a teenager this is all I get to see - I have younger kids under 5. Im dreading the teenage years. Are all teens like this, How to you handle teen years. During the family and friend all beign together during Xmas, She walked around saying smart disrespectful comments. I would have grounded her to her room with the mouth on her. Maybe Im just not use to this age but I just do not want my kids to be like that, I will "beat" them. My neice has began an online relationship with a 17yr old boy several states away. First off she isnt allowed to talk to anyone online other than who she knows in person. Her mom found out about this and grounded her (which last 2 days @@). After her mom spoke to the boy on the phone and she is now ok with this...The 14yr old, is basicly a good girl, emo/goth crowd in the flag line in band.But still a teenager.My teen years wasnt that long ago and even what seems good always isnt.input on teens

2007-12-28 02:53:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

yesterday,since my hubby was working from home he asked me to make him coffee.. i was not in grt mood to make since we already had a petty fight.. we jus had lunch wch i had made and was jus relaxing on a couch wth tv.. i dint say anything..i made coffee and said,here take it..he says m not gonna drink since i dint offer in a sweet way..it made me more mad and started to pull him to drink coffee,he jus left the room..i followed him and started pushing him to drink,but he didnt..he said i m going to drink if u offer in a nice way..then i said,i cant since u have already upset me..i asked him to ask sorry for the previous incident then i would ask him in a sweet way to drink..he wanted me to go first,i wanted him to go first..again had arguements,then he wudnt drink,i was pushing him to drink,and started pulling his laptop not allowing him to work..he dint take it in a sportive way as always and started wresling angrily wth me all over the house knowing that i m pregnant. i am very upset

2007-12-28 02:21:27 · 9 answers · asked by Loly Ry 1

8 Months ago I watched my neighbor taken away in an ambulance bloody and beaten. And watched her loser boyfriend taken away in cuffs. He beat her with hammer and got her in the face and arms.
I tried to comfort her when she got back home but her stupidity made me want to aviod this dumb woman. All she talked about was how much she loved this loser and how sorry he was when he called collect from jail. To make this short she took him back.

Now she has 2 girls ( neither child is the abusers ) one is 8 the other is 11. They come to my house sometimes to play with my 3 year old son and visit. Occasionally I'll ask if everything is okay at home and if they are safe.

These poor girls watched their mom get hit with a hammer!!!

Yesterday the 11 year old came over and asked to talk to me. She proceeded to tell me her mom is getting beat again by her boyfriend.

Now i don't care about their mother I care about them. They don't need to see that abuse. Should I call CPS?

2007-12-28 01:45:24 · 19 answers · asked by USMCgrlandMommy 6

Im 16 years old and I just had sex with a guy last night(I dont know how I even hooked up with him in the first place) and enjoyed every moment of it like more than with a girl but the thing is that Im pretty sure Im straight...help

2007-12-27 18:39:14 · 12 answers · asked by kylecastro0919 1

I'm starting a new school. What kind of person in a middle school is the most likable? I'm trying to be him...

2007-12-27 18:02:14 · 13 answers · asked by Matteo 2

Do you think it is easier or harder than 10 or 20 years ago?

2007-12-27 16:18:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay. soo me and my firstt ever bf on our like 3rd date were having sex and i started bawling it was so beautifull....i just love him so much and im uusally not this emotional....is this normal?

2007-12-27 15:59:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-27 14:43:42 · 16 answers · asked by RayAnn F 1

Mine is Hairspray which is the best movie ever star if you like Hairspray!

2007-12-27 14:20:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15, and I went to the doctor recently. Although it was unrelated to the reason I came to see him (I have a sinus infection), he insisted on weighing me. After he saw how much I weighed (I won't go into details, but my BMI works out to 31), he pronounced me a "fat pig", and lectured me very harshly for the next six minutes. I know I need to lose weight, but was he out of line? Surely he could have been nicer? I was so embarrassed I wanted to die.
Is it okay for a doctor to say something like that? Has it ever happened to anyone else?

Thanks very much for your time.

2007-12-27 13:35:51 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is 16 1/2 and does what she pleases. She has been staying with her grandmother lately because I can't handle her anymore. she stays out as late as she wants, goes to school when she wants, sometimes gets brought home by the police. Has been picked up for smoking pot. She has been drinking and brags about it. When she does decide to come home she will start an argument with me over nothing and the screaming begins. She won't stop screaming and yelling until I give her what she wants, which I don't. It happened again tonight. I started to call the police to have her removed from the house and then she left. This also would not be the first time. She is verbally abusive to anyone that doesn't give her what she wants, including family and teachers. She has no respect for anyone or even herself. Her last two boyfriends have been 22 and even got pregnant once and didn't even care. Social services even got involved and never did anything about the boyfriends. Help!!!

2007-12-27 13:18:41 · 21 answers · asked by ti_dblgrrr2002 1

I'm probably 12 weeks pregnant right now, and my husband and I have been putting off telling my 13 year old the news for a few weeks now. I can tell she's beginning to suspect something, but I'm not sure how I should break the news to her. Any suggestions?...

2007-12-27 13:00:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-27 12:28:32 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 14 and i hannt had my period yet. a male friend of mine wants me to have sex with him but i am unsure of weather i will get pregnant or yet. i have heard if you havnt had your peiod yet it cant happen. also i soral sex dangerous?

2007-12-27 11:48:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

to grow some more?
right now I am 15.
im 5"2
and weigh 100

I want to grow some more but I havent grown for quite some time

my younger sister is 5"1!

why is that? my mom is 5"4 and my dad is 5"6
and my grampa from my mom's side is 5"8?

am I going to grow anymore (hopefully)?

2007-12-27 11:12:14 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, my parents are going on a trip for 2 weeks. My grandparents are supposed to be watching me since none of my other relatives were able to. I'm supposed to be going to a party on New Years Eve at my girlfriends uncles place. I guess you can call me a cross-dresser since I wear girl clothes. My grandparents are against it. My girlfriend wants me to wear the dress she got me for Christmas to the party and so does everybody else. I'm not even sure my grandparents would even let me get out of the house let alone letting me go there in a dress.
What should I do?
By the way, I'm 15.

2007-12-27 10:16:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

has this strange habbit
she will lay on her stomach but her hands between her legs
cross her leggs and go up and down :S
im a bit worrid mum says its a thing she will grow out of but researched it onlne and it said she could be disturbed or something
anyone else have a daughter little sister brother tht does somthing like this :S ??
shes comng up for 7 she started this a 5
help please im worrid about her ?
could some one be abusing her sexualy ?
as what she does looks like shes having sex
sorry about the graffic detail im just soo worrid
x x x thanks x x x

2007-12-27 09:56:07 · 27 answers · asked by twinkle 2

2007-12-27 09:52:13 · 42 answers · asked by louise d 6

how tall should i be at 15 when my mom is 5'3 and my dad is 5'9 i am 13 right now adn 4'8 ?????????

2007-12-27 09:37:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any band....old...new...just your favorite ever!!! Just wondering

Thanx for all the answers =)

2007-12-27 09:26:14 · 47 answers · asked by ? 2

ok, i have a friend , who wants to do weed. and now is. he got high on christmas eve and day. and all of christmas break. and he has a "big load" for new years. and im scared he is going to do something really really really stupid. [because well , he has that personallity when he thinks he is a bigg shot and can do anything he wants] me and my other friend tried to tell him "you think u wont get caught?!" and "dont , you're being stupid!" but he wont listen. and he has had alot of problems in his life , and he doesnnnnt need anymore.he wont listen to me , what am i suppose to do?!

2007-12-27 08:55:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was at recess with my bf and this jerk zac was like retardi (my last names ricciardi) you b*tch your the lowest peice of sh*t that i have ever known your a friggin whore and blah blah and i dident do anythig about it my bf very obviosly wanted to punch him but i was just like lets go and now im not shure if i should report it to a teeacher and get him kicked out of civil rites or not ( my bf and i have no idea how he got into civil rites) my friend said she will come with me but that was the friday before our winter break and it will have been 12 days and i dont know what the teachers will do (and my parents cant find out that i have a bf)

2007-12-27 08:51:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

umm its a sleepover big gigantic room i love music dont have a ps2 umm all girls movie ideas what should we do birthday is in january um games HELP!!

2007-12-27 08:33:31 · 14 answers · asked by michigangrl20 2

2007-12-27 07:00:19 · 32 answers · asked by jane 1

My mother accidentally hit our 5 year old family Pug yesterday. It was a complete freak accident and she was driving carefully, he just ran under the car at the wrong time. When we got to the vet, he was already dead (he probably broke his neck instantly, we just didn't want to believe it until the vet pronounced him dead). My mother blames herself and is very upset as he was greatly loved by our family. How can we persuade our mom to forgive herself and accept that it was just a freak accident?

2007-12-27 06:27:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i half inserted my penis into my girlfriend's vagina just once without a condom and took it out .. it was her 11th day and she was ovulating.. we didnt have a condom then.. what are the chances of pregnancy?.. should she take a contraceptive pill?

2007-12-27 05:20:34 · 20 answers · asked by asd 1

2007-12-27 04:18:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

5 days ago i gave birth to my baby daughter, and i was aged 13 (i got pregnant through rape) and i decided yesterday id like to introduce her to the family and because i hadnt been out of the house since i brought kayleigh home, i thought id walk her to my nans house, and the amount of people giving me dirty looks and pointing and whispering was unbelievable!
its really upsetting, ive always been good, looked after my appearance, tried hard at my education, and i still will, but now i have a pram to push around with me, people have decided theyre going to hate me, half of them dont even know she is mine! i could be babysitting!
i dont resent kayleigh-jade, she is the most precious thing, but im just coming to ask that when you see a 13 year old girl walking down the street with a pram, please think before you judge her, it breaks my heart to be snubbed because i have a child. though, no matter what anyone thinks, i will love my daughter more than anyone, shes my priority.
Thanks.x

2007-12-26 22:32:04 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 22:11:23 · 29 answers · asked by Sarah Bornino 1