2007-12-27 04:18:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Whether they like him or not its not the issue, he's the father of their grand child. They'll get over it.
They'll be upset as any parent would be, but oh well.
Just tell them you're pregnant and need them and their support and help.
2007-12-27 04:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 7⤊ 1⤋
wait till you r able to sit them down probably like around dinner time or sumthen like dat and just tell them...bcuz really its nothen dey can do or say bcuz ur still gonna be pregnant with a baby on the way.and for everybody criticizing this girl yall need 2 get a life and grow up...she is only 14..so what she's pregnant its not u...is it? for yall 2 be adults u guys sure b acten immature like a fucken14 yr.old(but i think i said enough becuz i can say more becuz ima speak my mind and i really dont appreciate that)... but anywayz just make the best of the situation becuz u cant go bac n time,so hey holly i wish you the best of luck!!!! and **** what everybody else say just do you becuz n da long run you r the one having the baby and not these loudmouth ppl(i wana say sum else) so just learn from it and move on becuz its other things n the world thats way more serious...i mean u coulda caught HIV and plus its 2007 and u stil have people putting ****** nooses on the tree so cmon now life goes on...just learn from it.atleast ur not tryna get an abortion bcuz of sumthen YOU decided 2 do.lol but no offense but like i said do you holly and congrats!lol
2007-12-27 05:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by sexctaurus_gapeach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to tell you're pregnant, when you just started high school. I mean, 14 is a very hard age to go through something like this so I think you should just tell them straight up. I hope your boyfriend is there for you. God bless you, your family, and your boyfriend.
2007-12-27 04:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by \Nico/ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be no easy way- they will react the same even if they do like him, but they will probably use the fact they don't like him against you. I think you need to tell them right away and listen to what they have to say. Believe it or not, they do have your best interests at heart. Being 21 and a single mother of a 2 year old... please think about what you are going to do... I know a baby is a blessing but you have no idea- you're life is over. Literally over... maybe you should think about alternatives to having the baby. I know you're probably not going to understand, just like I didn't understand when I was faced with your problem- but you really have NO IDEA what it's like. Everything is so much harder and so much more money... it costs a million dollars to raise a child, about 10,000 or more a year... you really need to think about the welfare of your child, are you really going to be able to provide for it? Maybe you'll have help from your parents, but you need to remember its YOUR child and if you make the decision to have a baby, its going to affect EVERYONE around you, and not always in a positive way. You have your whole life ahead of you. Think about high school, college and working. I skipped college (biggest regret) and went straight to work. I love my daughter more than anything but I should have waited... I hope you take what I say seriously... being so young you really don't understand... I hope everything works out for you.
2007-12-27 04:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by nikirollerblades 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll just have to sit down and tell them.
I had my first child at 14 - and I know how hard it is!!
You need the help and support of your parents right now, so you'll have to let them know what's going on. Write them a letter if it's too hard to tell them face to face.
Good luck!
2007-12-27 04:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest thing to do is to write a note.
Dear Mom and Dad,
I know that you will disappointed in me, but I am pregnant. Please, I could use your help and support. I understand the consequences of what I have done, and I know that I have made a mistake...
Or something along those lines.
Fair warning, they will be very angry and disappointed. Just listen to what they say and don't give any back-talk to them, okay?
Good luck <333
2007-12-27 04:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, for your situation. You're parents are going to have to deal with him now that he is the father to your child. I think the best way to approach it has have a meeting with your boyfriend's parents and your parents, and if you could try to have a reasonable and neutral adult, who has nothing to do with the situation there, such as a pastor or a close family friend.
2007-12-27 04:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Linda J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, id sit them down, or tell them at dinner when its just you and them. That way if they say anything bad about your boyfriend he wont be there to feel bad or get the wrath of your parents. they will be upset im sure, you are only 14, but they will get over it. they have to really. its your decision and im sure they'll support you any way they can. after you tell them, give them a week or so to let the shock wear off and let THEM be the ones to bring it up after you've told them. that way you know they're accepting the situation on their own.
2007-12-27 04:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what is done is done.... and thats the way you are going to have to handel this... your parent will most likly freak out but when it all comes doen to it sweetie you ae going to be a mom and have to grow up quick.. you should deffinantly tell them asap so they can have time to dill with it. you know if you and you boy friend dont think you can handel having the responsibility for parenting then adoption is a good choise too... there are so many families that cant have babies that want one bad!! good luck and lots of prayers to you sweetie
2007-12-27 04:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this point, your parents approval or not of your boyfriend no longer affects the life that you have created. You no longer need the lectures of birth control, absenance, or safe-sex, now , face the fiddler and raise this child or put him/her up for adoption.
You are too young to make this decision yourself and NEED your parents help. be honest with them and they will tell you thing you don't want to hear, but probably need to.
good luck
this is a LIFE, now be responsible for it.
2007-12-27 04:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just as involved as you are. You need to rally all parents from both sides and figure out whats best for you, the baby and they boyfriend. Having a child is a major responsibility.
2007-12-27 04:22:46 · answer #11 · answered by Robert Miller 95670 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋