I am 14 and i hannt had my period yet. a male friend of mine wants me to have sex with him but i am unsure of weather i will get pregnant or yet. i have heard if you havnt had your peiod yet it cant happen. also i soral sex dangerous?
2007-12-27 11:48:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Boys who want to have sex with you are not your friends. Yes you can get pregnant and you can get stds from oral sex.
2007-12-27 11:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by wantajeannie 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex can be dangerous because you can still catch an STD!!!! And even if you have never had your period there is still a chance you could get pregnant, and anyway even if you couldn't you should ALWAYS use a condom!!!! Even if the guy said he is a virgin too he could be fibbing. I think that if you haven't got your period yet your sooo not ready for sex. I say wait until you are a woman first and find someone who you really care for that also cares for you and that won't happen for a few years, I promise even if you think you love him you don't and there is someone out there you are meant to be with! Wait for the right person sweety, don't want you to regret it! He will probably go around telling everyone at school that he boned you and all the details like if you were good or bad in bed, all that stuff. But if you decide to have sex with this guy, please use a condom!!! Hope I helped!
2007-12-27 11:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by #2♥onTheWay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN get pregnant, if there is an egg to fertilize. You will ovulate for the first time about two weeks before your first period. That first egg is just as capable of being fertilized as any of the eggs that come after it.
And you don't know when you'll be releasing that egg, do you?
Sounds like your male friend just wants to bust a virgin. Some guys are like that.
By the way, what's the matter with you? Are you actually considering losing your virginity at 14 to some "friend", and not someone you're desperately in love with, who deserves you? What's this friend ever done for you, to make you even think of doing this for him?
2007-12-27 12:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by helene 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can get pregnant if you have not had your period yet.
Yes, oral sex can be as dangerous as the regular kind - you can catch all the same kinds of venereal diseases, only in your mouth! I knew a guy who got gonnorhea in his throat (try not to think about that too much)- he was an unhappy guy for a long time.
I am going to give you some advice, and I think it would be wise of you to listen.
You spend 18 years as a kid. You spend, in an average lifespan, the next 60 or so as an adult. You have PLENTY of time to do grown up stuff. Spend your very precious kid time being a kid.
I don't care how much you think I am wrong, I don't care how much you dislike me after this. You are NOT old enough to make the choice to have sex. This male 'friend' of yours is NOT a friend. He is asking your permission to use you.
Someday you will probably want a husband and children. Please, please make the choices that will leave you with fewer regrets. Do you ever want to have to explain to someone on the first date, that if the relationship goes too far, he will have to protect himself from Herpes? Do you want to have to tell your mother you are pregnant? Do you want to have to make decisions that ONLY have wrong answers (abortion, adoption or keeping a baby you are not old enough to parent) when you are so young?
Or, do you want to be able to say to the other half of your heart (when you find him), on your wedding day, that he never has to worry about your past, because you saved this one time only gift just for him. And yes, oral sex is sex. Virginity and purity are attitudes of the heart, not objects in the body.
Many blessings dear.
2007-12-27 12:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible but not as likely. The best way to avoid getting pregnant is to just not have sex but if you're going that way make him wear a condom, it's the most effective way of preventing teenage pregnancy and life ruining STDs.
Oral sex can be dangerous because you can catch or spread STDs with oral sex just like with intercourse.
Before you have sex you should be a little bit more informed. You should go to a planned parenthood clinic and talk to them about birth control and any other questions you have.
2007-12-27 11:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by shortnweird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is always the possibility of getting pregnant. If you really wan't to have sex with him then do it but there can be serious problems and consequences if you do it. If you really love each other and think that you can raise a baby together and for the rest of your life then go ahead and do it. I highly recomend not doing it though! Before you make your choice...think about all the dangerous possibilities...like lost trust from ur parents and friends...sexually transmitted diseases...make sure to use condoms...be safe play it right.
2007-12-27 12:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by Chocoholic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've never started your period, then no, you cannot get pregnant. However, you'll be starting very soon and you don't know when...so that can be tricky. You could be ovulating for your first period and not know it. Oral sex is not dangerous as long as no one has a disease. However, reading you're question, I have to wonder.....what do you want? Just because he wants you to have sex with him doesn't mean you have to. You'd be giving him something you can only give away one time and can never get back. Don't give it to just anyone. Trust me, you won't regret waiting.
2007-12-27 11:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, you can get pregnant.
Yes, oral sex can be dangerous. You can contact herpes from the guy--just as you can if you have sex.
Don't do either one. You will end up not trusting your boyfriend and you may end up pregnant or with a sexually transmitted disease.
He just wants to use you for sex or he wouldn't have asked you.
Wait until you get married and then marry a virgin.
2007-12-27 11:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by The Monk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are two types of herpes simplex virus: HSV-1 and HSV-2. Both virus types can cause sores around the mouth (herpes labialis) and on the genitals (genital herpes). Cold sores are caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV).
Cold sores sometimes called fever blisters, are groups of small blisters on the lip and around the mouth. The skin around the blisters is often red, swollen, and sore. The blisters may break open, leak a clear fluid, and then scab over after a few days. They usually heal in several days to 2 weeks.
The herpes simplex virus usually enters the body through a break in the skin around or inside the mouth. It is usually spread when a person touches a cold sore or touches infected fluid—such as from sharing eating utensils or razors, kissing an infected person, or touching that person's saliva. A parent who has a cold sore often spreads the infection to his or her child in this way. Cold sores can also be spread to other areas of the body.
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2015-01-27 00:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can get pregnant
and don't have sex untill you are married and able to handle a baby.
even if you don't get pregnant you can still get an STD which can KILL you
you're only 14, you have better things to do.
2007-12-27 12:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by Kenna Coconut™ Actorasauress Rex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get herpes, Chlamydia , HIV, HPV, HEP-C and syphillis via oral sex. Yes, it can be dangerous.
Any sex without a condom is unsafe. It is unsafe WITH a condom. You are always at risk of disease and you should be very careful about it EVERY SINGLE TIME.
If you are unsure if you can get pregnant you should get a gynocologist and ask them these questions.
Don't mess around with sex until you know what the risks are.
2007-12-27 11:56:36 · answer #11 · answered by delreyme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋