Adolescent - December 2007

Will she like it? and any ideas on what else I can get her for Christmas, she is not a hard child to shop for, but she really hasn't asked for much this year.

Thanks in advance and Merry Christmas.

2007-12-19 04:28:33 · 19 answers · asked by Nikki 2

Monday night she texted me and told me she cut herself and that she was really upset, she asked me to get on msn that night and i said i would. I also said "well jeez that was real smart" when she told me. I didn't get on msn that night and I didn't get on till about 11:30p.m last night. Her display message was "sick of always f*cking waiting around* with a broken heart as her pic. She's grounded right now, thats why we can't actaully be together. I don't think I did anything wrong, but she won't even talk to me. Did I do something wrong? What did I do?

2007-12-19 04:17:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-19 04:17:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am just looking for other's opinions on this. My personal opinion is that her parents have not done a great job of raising their kids! I know this sounds cruel, but look at what a train wreck Britney is - I think she could have used some better guidance from her family - and now Jamie Lynn - who is ONLY 16 for Pete's sake! - is pregnant. How about hushing something like that up? I don't think 16 year olds should see how this is "big news" and it shouldn't be glamorized!

Thanks for letting me have my say - and now it's your turn!

2007-12-19 03:59:44 · 29 answers · asked by JQ 4

2007-12-19 03:08:59 · 25 answers · asked by Snowflake 2

The teen with problems: She has always been bright, but unmotivated. Getting by would be her moto. Average to below average grades, very overweight, poor hygene. Easy to talke to, talks a good talk, not doing anything terribly bad, or terribly good. Until

Teen and family agree for her last year in school she would live away from home, with parents close by. This was mutually agreeable.

Teen now desides to not go to school, and even skip on going to work, which she had previously liked. What does she do instead...sleep. She has been encouraged, in many different ways to do the right thing, but she doesn't do it.

So now, this teen has used up most of her options, parents, school, work and will soon be faced with the results of these decisions. No money, no work, family distanced, no education.

Is there anything, any one who can turn a person like this around. A boot camp, a program, the military, a group...

2007-12-19 01:25:16 · 9 answers · asked by redford 2

recently admitted to me that she had lost her virginity. she said it was willingly...

i'm extremly upset and don't know wat to do.......... she's only 14

2007-12-18 23:50:34 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 23:08:18 · 25 answers · asked by coolio girl/advice queen 2

2007-12-18 21:04:42 · 41 answers · asked by rup7j82 1

do u think is normal for me to have a curfew? i am 20 years old and am a full time student, am not working at the moment because the companies i worked for separated, i am not allowed to do the things other 20 year olds get to do, as in stay out late, just because i dont have a job, i think is not fair, because i still do things around the house since am not working, it fair? what should i do? oh and i am looking for a job recently since semester is over. any suggestions?

2007-12-18 18:22:59 · 19 answers · asked by :^) 3

my friends keep ******* it up 4 me cuz theyre always around me and i dont want em 2 know i like her cuz ill get pressured so wat r a couple of things i can do 2 avoid them 4 a while and i think she might kno im attracted 2 her but were both kinda shy.

2007-12-18 16:36:41 · 1 answers · asked by :'I 5

...for getting a bad grade on a test I didn't study for. I just got spanked earlier this week for cussing(it just slipped). I'm 15. This happens usually when I get bad grades or cuss. I used to get it for drinking, lieing, and stayin out all night but i no longer do any of these things in fear that I will get in trouble. Aren't I way too old for this? I'm scared it will happen again!

2007-12-18 16:00:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think my parents have sex, which seems gross to me, but I can never catch them in the act or the pills or condomns or nything. Like, it kinda seems really gross imagining them. What's ur opinion on this?

2007-12-18 13:45:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay i want to take it so i get fewer periods.... but i dont want my parents thinking im having sex.... what should i do?

2007-12-18 13:42:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

How to ask the boy I like to come to my party I'm having (READ MORE)?
We were in the same play together... I was on his friend\'s list on Facebook, then I sent him a message and he removed me from his friends list and didn't respond to the message, I dunno how to take it so I figure I'm gonna invite him to the party I'm having... but I dunno if he just forgot me or he just is trying to get rid of me... thats pretty weird what he did in my opinion... but like I wanna ask him to come I'm gonna tell him one of his friends is gonna be there (& he will be there), but see when I ask him I'm afraid he won't remember me and he might think it\'s odd I'm inviting him... or he might remember me and think Im desperate... I dunno... what should I do!? (We are in high school)

2007-12-18 13:37:18 · 6 answers · asked by the5500 2

After picking my lip up off the floor, and wanting to run as fast as I could to the nearest door crying, I squeezed him ever so tightly and said: "I love you no matter what."

And, I meant it.

What say you?

2007-12-18 13:31:51 · 31 answers · asked by zaer 1

MY FIANCE IS IN IRAQ FOR THE LAST 9 OR 10 MONTHS AND LAST MONTH I HAD A FLING WITH A GUY AT A PARTY AND AM NOW PG. I WANT AN ABORTION BEFOR HE FINDS OUT BUT MY FRIENDS SAY IT IS WRONG AND THAT HE WILL UNDERSTAND BUT I DON'T THINK HE WILL.WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-12-18 13:07:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a "Big Sister" to an 11 year old girl. I have asked her mother for ideas to get her and she is not even sure what she is getting for her herself. So what is in? What are some of the 11 year old girls out there asking for? Thanks in advance for your ideas.

2007-12-18 12:54:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so there is alot of gossip going around at school and some is about me. I just dont want to deal with it right now. winter break is on thursday but i just cant last 2 more days being talked about. Please help i think i might have depression.

2007-12-18 12:45:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a fifteen year old guy, not gay, and wear a bra. I do have man boobs. I am 210. Is it okay? I am a C cup.

2007-12-18 12:31:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, the boy I like. He always tried to get my attention. As in if I'm NOT giving ALL my full attention to him he will do something to try to get my attention. As in he will call me this nickname (some people will call it a pet name) and then when i turn around he just smiles big and waves. And he ALWAYS teases me constantly and we fight (how me and him flirt) constantly as well. And he remembers things PERFECTLY from 3 years agothat most people would never remember! But when he is with his friends he acts completly different. He is really popular and I am extremly unpopular. And he insults me and things. But I know thats because of Middle School, he can't be caught associating with one of the "freaks" because he is SO popular. And I get that. But today he was so quiet. Usually, he never shuts up. And in the begining of class 2 days ago he gave me a HUGE smile and a geeky wave when I said hi to him in class. But why would he be so quiet? And ignore me?

2007-12-18 12:04:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would "limit zone" and "off-limit zone". What I mean by that is what do you think teenagers around my age can do (buy clothes without parents' advice, walk to friends' house without permission) and what they can't do (go to friends' car and drive off somewhere without your knowing)... I'm interested to what you think is off-limits and what's not off-limits?

2007-12-18 11:09:18 · 12 answers · asked by Deniece 4

Me and my boyfriend are 13. If we get married then we won't get pregnant until we're grown up. We'll keep going to school. We won't live on our own because we can't afford to. But if we love each other then we should be free to get married. Do you agree that's a good idea?

2007-12-18 10:49:10 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

recentally my ex bf and i broke up, around 3 weeks ago. we hav been good friends. and about 2 weeks ago we talked bout getting back together, he wasnt sure, so im giving him the time he needs. but the last 2 days it's seamed like he's ignoring me and trying to avoid me. like 1/2 the time he's teasing me like normal, 1/2 the time it seems like he's avoiding me. what should i do?

2007-12-18 10:49:03 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you feel about thee spice girls coming back after all this time? do you like them better now or back in the 90's?

2007-12-18 10:46:59 · 41 answers · asked by kelly <3 4

Ok..My son of 14 years came home today with a penis drawed around his belly button..When i asked who did it he said a guy? He don't see anything wrong with it??? He's always coming home with something written on his hand or his arms..this is the first time its been something vulgar like this..usually its names or something like that..We've told him time and time again not to be drawing on his self but yet he still does it and this time its a penis...uggghhh..So my question is how do I explain the reasoning why this isn't right and what should I do...put him on restriction, or what?? Any advice would be great!!

2007-12-18 09:15:58 · 49 answers · asked by Jess05 2

Basically, a girl knows VERY well I like her.
A long time ago, she put me on the "list" of guys that like her.
It was frustrating to be on a list but not be the one...and I kept pursuing her...she's good at making me run, but on the few occasions that I gave up, she always ended up coming to me.

Recently, I sarcastically asked her "so, whatever happened to that list?"
She said "I got rid of it." in a matter of fact voice. Then, said "except for one guy."
I said "who?"
She said "you."

A little later I asked her out...and she said she won't go out with me...her excuse was that she wasn't allowed to because I'm not catholic, and her parents are super-catholics.

If this is true,why tell me I'm the only one??
Please be honest. Did I get played?
How do I treat her now??

I've been aloof, but she's been trying to contact me/dropping comments about how I'm being weird or mean.
I'm being sarcastic and brief, but not actually rude.
WHAT do I do???????

2007-12-18 08:00:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 06:33:19 · 44 answers · asked by termcd4 1

I took in my 16 year old niece to live with me. Her mom, my sister, put a restraining order against her that doesn't expire until she's 18 as a result of a fight they got in. Since I didn't want her to become a ward of the state of NY I told her she could live with me when I moved to GA. I signed up for food stamps b/c I brought home very little money. In the end, I had to move back to NY to get work and leave her w/my sister in GA until I could enroll her in Job Corps. I crashed my car, so I got rides to work. I then found out that my niece had been skipping school and was flunking. She was also skipping her tutoring sessions. My electricity got cut off and the same day I was fired from my job. Now that I'm in NY I have a job but am staying w/friends. Should I get a weekly room to rent for the both of us to live in while I enroll her in Job Corp and bring her up here? My sister wants her out of her house in GA. Her mother still won't take her in. Get a room? Let her go?

2007-12-18 05:57:50 · 9 answers · asked by fairydancer2003 2

My daughter is only 6, but I've already thought about this. I think 16 is a good age. That's what my parents did with me and for some reason, I feel as though this is a good age.

What do you think and why?

2007-12-18 05:14:02 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous