How to ask the boy I like to come to my party I'm having (READ MORE)?
We were in the same play together... I was on his friend\'s list on Facebook, then I sent him a message and he removed me from his friends list and didn't respond to the message, I dunno how to take it so I figure I'm gonna invite him to the party I'm having... but I dunno if he just forgot me or he just is trying to get rid of me... thats pretty weird what he did in my opinion... but like I wanna ask him to come I'm gonna tell him one of his friends is gonna be there (& he will be there), but see when I ask him I'm afraid he won't remember me and he might think it\'s odd I'm inviting him... or he might remember me and think Im desperate... I dunno... what should I do!? (We are in high school)
2007-12-18 13:37:18 · 6 answers · asked by the5500 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2007-12-18 13:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by India L 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well for one, since i am a boy, i will tell you how i would feel. First of all, If I delete you from my friends list, the message you sent me must be really weird.
If you were to then invite me to your party, the approach that will be best is for you to ask me why I removed you from my friends list first, and when I am finished telling you, you should say something like, " Hey well anyway, um, you wanna come to my party?"
2007-12-18 22:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by YoungPhatboi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Don't worry. This happens to alot of people. If you like him, then when you feel the time is right, tell him, it will help your feelings and mabye you'll even act alot more outgoing around him. As for the asking part...Get him to notice you somehow....Make him remember you again, remind him of something, about a moment you guys spent together? Laugh with him (make jokes), it will help. And when you feel like things are getting normal, casually say I'm having a party, Wanna come? If he'syour friend at this point, HE WILL say YES. If he says no make one of your friends call you (plan this out), and say i gotta go, cya l8r. And if he says NO, It's his loss!! Hope this helped!!
2007-12-18 21:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by *~*TooPretty4You*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you actually might end up hurt...
if he doesnt like you,
then maybe he will find someone at the party
and ask her out!
but if you still want to go forward, the truth is that he will probably come anyways...all you need to do is invite you. he would prolly bring a friend anyways.....just send him an evite...it looks more simple, like you were giving one to everyone. i would just do it, except for that detail i started this out with.
2007-12-18 21:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 15 and it is JUST A PARTY--you are not asking him for a committment--so go ahead and invite him. If he says NO, you will have your answer how he feels about you.
2007-12-18 21:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just say your having a party and he's welcome to come. Don't say his friend is coming because it makes seem like your desperate for him to come. And if he doesn't go then i would just move on with your life and forget about him
2007-12-18 21:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kelsey 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋