recentally my ex bf and i broke up, around 3 weeks ago. we hav been good friends. and about 2 weeks ago we talked bout getting back together, he wasnt sure, so im giving him the time he needs. but the last 2 days it's seamed like he's ignoring me and trying to avoid me. like 1/2 the time he's teasing me like normal, 1/2 the time it seems like he's avoiding me. what should i do?
2007-12-18 10:49:03 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
also, im not wanting to date anyone else so dont say find somone else.
2007-12-18 10:53:23 · update #1
if this helps:
this weirdness has just started, like, within the last 2 days. of course word got out that we saw a movie on sunday together, and from wat i've heard, his friends have been bugging the heck out of him and wont stop saying...OOOH are u guys back, aww, one day ur gonna b making out, aww! and just other crap that really bugs him. thats why we broke up the first time. and also, i asked him like, just like about the needing time thing and he said and i quote: "if i were a magic 8 ball, it would b anwser unshure, ask again later"
2007-12-18 10:59:45 · update #2
wel i was in the same position last year
guys are weird they have there own way
of doing things. i would give him another
couple of days to decide and if still by then
he hasn't answered then confront him about it
it seems to me that you are quite open with each
other, but don't let him mess you around your better
than that and only get back together with him if you feel comfortable doing so
2007-12-18 10:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by sum person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all situations are different of course but I would give him some time to think about his feelings. He may be ignoring you out of embarrassment at the situation or perhaps he's unsure if you still want to get back together. Maybe just asking him if he's thought about would help. Don't push him, go as far as you think you would be comfortable answering or talking about yourself. If it's take him a while to decide, don't get angry. He may just be confused, if you let him know that you really do care or that you do want to be with him, and see if he responds. Don't push him, your not going to help by pressuring him. Hoes this helps abit.
2007-12-18 10:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jetta B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just as confused as you are about the break up and whether or not you two SHOULD get back together. Do what you want to do, if you want to get back with him then do it, don't worry so much about what he MIGHT be thinking, doing, or acting like. Good luck for the best.
2007-12-18 10:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by *Julia* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's time to find a new boyfriend.
If you were meant to be together you wouldn't have broken up. Give it some time and him some space and hopefully you will be able to remain good friends.
2007-12-18 10:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you broke up or not? It sounds like you're the one who doesn't want it to stop. Continue to give him space. Believe it or not, if you go out to a movie with someone else or something simliarly harmless, it might get him to think about what he's missing.
2007-12-18 10:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie when guys are acting like that its because they want to and they dont want to
you also have to see how he reacts in front of a sertan person
maybe he likes you but he might also like some other girl so also depends on that
so be a good girl and find out who he likes and i bet he wont act like that when you tell him 'hey i know you like her and i think we should stay friends'
maybe he just wants to be friends but he doesnt want to tell becaus he might think it will hurt you and affect your relationship as friends so think about it and see if he is the right guy 4 u. take care hope thing go well.
2007-12-18 10:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it moving go on with your life find somebody else Tricks are for kids and if he is playing that game then you need to do the same.
2007-12-18 10:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess he doesn't know what he wants. he just playing with you and your feelings. ask him if you two are not longer together. if you are over him then move on. so many guy out in the world...one is right for you.
Good Luck
2007-12-18 10:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just ignore him and move on, after all he's teasing you. its his lose that he doesn't take the chance of getting back together with you when you basically have offered it out to him. when he has taken his time and has decided, then he'll tell you, and then you should see what happens then.
2007-12-18 10:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you be friends and let the BF go? Good friends are a hell of a lot more difficult to find than BF's.
2007-12-18 10:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by Lizbiz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋