Monday night she texted me and told me she cut herself and that she was really upset, she asked me to get on msn that night and i said i would. I also said "well jeez that was real smart" when she told me. I didn't get on msn that night and I didn't get on till about 11:30p.m last night. Her display message was "sick of always f*cking waiting around* with a broken heart as her pic. She's grounded right now, thats why we can't actaully be together. I don't think I did anything wrong, but she won't even talk to me. Did I do something wrong? What did I do?
2007-12-19 04:17:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I know she really did cut, I talked to her best friend and she saw it. They aren't lying about this.
2007-12-19 04:27:38 · update #1
You were selfish and it sounds like this isn't the first time. sounds like she needs a boyfriend who cares.
2007-12-19 04:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I don't blame her for being mad. You don't tell someone you are going to do something and then you don't. That is a big no no. If you didn't want to get on msn you should have just told her that you couldn't get on that night, don't drag her on. If she is cutting herself that is a very serious problem. When I was younger I did that and I finally got help and worked it out. But that is not something you take lightly. You need to talk with her on why she is cutting and encourage her to seek help from her parents or a school counselor or someone she trusts. But for you to say "well jeez that was real smart" is very insensitive. I don't know how old you guys are or how long you have dated but as a boyfriend you are supposed to be there for her and be supportive. She needs someone to talk to about her feelings and actions. If you can not be that person then she needs to find someone who can. Good Luck.
2007-12-19 12:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by LuvBug 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry if your girlfriend has a cutting problem you defiently should of made it a priority to be online when she asked you too. She obviously needs some help and maybe shes just embarassed she broke down and told you what happend and that might be why she decided to give you the cold shoulder either way it doesnt sound like your ready for her and the emotional stuff that goes with being with her so maybe thats the better bet for you.
2007-12-19 12:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if she's sick of always ******* waiting around, cutting herself isn't going to solve problems. It'll only make herself look bad, her parents look bad and you.
If you feel you didn't do anything wrong, that's fine. There may be something that's on her mind that she may want to talk about. Something else may be going on that you may not know. Parents? Her being grounded? Whatever it is, she may just be taking it out on you.
Have a talk with her when you can. Hope everything goes well.
Violet
2007-12-19 12:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by Violet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think your girlfriend is crying out for attention. Most females love attention and affection, and she needs extra especially if you all are away. You didn't keep your work by logging to msn. so that was mistake and disappoiment #1, and you waited till the end of the NEXT day at night to log on. She wants to be priority not the last thing on your list. Think about it.
2007-12-19 12:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by lilacbeauti58 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, apparently you told her that you would meet up with her on MSN and you never did. And based off of her display message, it's not the first time you left her hanging. So to her, that's what you did wrong.
2007-12-19 12:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by TaDaa! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's cutting herself, that's not something for you to joke about or be sarcastic about. Cutting is a sign of a serious problem, and she needs to see a counselor. If you really cared about her, you would have realized that she just needed somebody to talk to, and you would have been there for her. I don't know if she was out of line, but if it were me, I would have been upset too.
2007-12-19 12:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Mikey's Mommy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well when she told you she cut herself what was you reaction? If you care for her you should have had a huge one. Are you there for her when she needs you? Sounds like she needs you alot. Is this to much for you? When someone cuts themself they are in alot of pain of some sort. Your reaction of geez that was smart didn't really do much for her out of control feelings she was having. Of course she wasn't being being smart. She needs help of some sort. Either you can be there for her to talk about whats going on or help her find someone who is. She is prabably not mad just really hurt. She needed you and you were not there for her. Find out whats going on and why she is in so much pain. If you love her be there for her. She needs you.
2007-12-19 12:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if she is mad at you right now? The problem here is this troubled girl that is cutting herself! You need to help her. You need talk her into going to see some sort of councelor or teacher maybe about her problem.
2007-12-19 12:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by Lil Devin's Mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you didnt do anything wrong. Shes upset because you didnt come at her beck and call. She needs to understand that you have a life aswell.
2007-12-19 12:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya ya did something wrong you said u were gonna meet her on msn and didn't! defintley not an a for effort+ how bout a littel sympathy she obviously had a bad day!
2007-12-19 12:21:41 · answer #11 · answered by Lee's Wife 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋