Adolescent - March 2007

My dilemma is this: my son will be 13 years old in a little more than a week. I am not saying these things because he is my son, but he is extremely adorable(good looking). He is about 5'9" and weighs about 170. He is very broad shouldered like my husband and already looks like a little man and hasn't even hit puberty. I know when he is grown up, he will be extremely handsome! Also, he is a straight A student, very good morals, extremely athletic, and a good sense of humor! He has some good friends, but the problem is I worry because he is very shy! He doesn't talk to girls and doesn't have girls as friends. He also doesnt accept compliments well. He also says when he has to speak or play sports in front of people he experiences extreme anxiety! I know he thinks girls are cute, etc. but he just won't develop relationships with them and has a hard time talking to people he isn't familiar with. I just feel he could have the world if he realized how easy he could have it! How to help him?

2007-03-08 17:41:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

pictures plz.

2007-03-08 17:39:07 · 4 answers · asked by **hunk** 1

im just curious im a young teen girl

2007-03-08 16:10:38 · 12 answers · asked by living the life 3

2007-03-08 16:05:09 · 58 answers · asked by Nicole M 1

were in high school she is new at school and we talk once... i started the conversation saying its cold outside when she was about to go outside and get a snack out of the snack machine... and i stayed inside by myself and she comes back in and starts to talk to me... we talk about our school history and religion. She told me she lives with her grandmother and she goes to this big church... she told me she used to go to private school and she had to wear a dress and she didn't like it... so she now goes to the public school... she also said that our class feels like it's summer school... are conversation ended when are 10 min break was over and back to work... i was leaving early right when break was over... she told me she was leaving in 2 hours... anyways, she said she was a loser and she walk back to class and I told her no your not... and that was it we both walk away and headed in different directions.... i thought the conversation was going good, but she was doing most of the talking... why do you think she called her self a loser for? she sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser... maybe she thought i was bored with our conversation... Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and the girl im interested was sittin behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright. I was going to say something than she puts her head down and goes back to work. She didn't have any friends when she was new now she has 1 that's really her true friend which he's gay btw. Anyways when she walks past me she won't even look at me. I hate when a girl ignores you like that. I'm not gonna talk to her unless she looks at me because to me that just seems like she doesn't want anything to do with me. I don't really know her that well, but i think she been acting weird. The class was on break so almost everyone goes outside and gets some fresh air and some stay inside by the door and waits for break to be over. The guys and I stay inside and wait for break to be over while the girls go outside and get some fresh air. I saw her talking to this guy outside and she anyways break was just about over and the girl comes inside and she kinda shouts to the guys if the door was lock. The guys said yea and than she seem like she had an attitude sayin in a rude way i'm going right back outside and goes right back and talks to the guy. Then I went outside and told her the door is now open and she ignore me like she didn't hear me. Maybe she really didn't. She was still talking to the guy. And few minutes later she comes inside and im right there and she didn't look at me. Then she goes back in the class and im still in the hall. So she gets out of class takes out her cell phone and calls her mother. And she goes outside and talks. The guy that she was talkin to was still out there. As soon as there conversation was over she said peace out to him. She could of ask me if the door was lock. I mean I was right next to her when she said it. Last week I haven't went to school for 4 days, but I went today and we both made eye contact for about 3-4 seconds, but her friend was right by the door when i walk in the class... so idk... than as we went on break she was waiting right by the door and i think she was looking at me to see if i would talk to her... but i didnt i walk right past her... i heard her outside yelling on the phone probably a family member... i was inside... i could hear her yelling cause i was right by the outside door... than she came inside cause it was cold outside... she talk on the phone across from me for about 2-3 minutes... than she went right back outside and talk... when she was done talking on the phone... she came inside with her head down... than she look up and look at me in a moody way... than she look back down really quick...she didnt give me a mean look... but she gave me a look like she was kinda mad or upset... shes not shy but i am... I talk to her monday I ask her what was her name and she told me and that was pretty much it, cause someone interupt our gonna have a conversation maybe, but than people were talking to us and we couldn't talk... At least I couldn't talk to her. So today I was standing right by the door and holding the door for the ladies. They didn't even know me and said thank you. And this girl I like comes by me and she knows me. And I hold the door open for her and she just looks at me and didn't say thank you. Is that a good sign or bad sign? I think I was smiling at her... I know I was happy, but I just can't remember if I was smiling or not. I was too busy thinking about something else I was happy about. What I was happy about is, I gave her a short touching story. It really is a touching story. Anyways I wrote something on the back of the story. I said, "please read this and share this story with your family. Sign at the bottom my name. I left this story while we were on break and I left it on her desk. I know you guys would like the story if I showed it you.

2007-03-08 15:54:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this isn't too much detail, but here it is anyways. I was being a gentleman. I was standing right by the door and holding the door for the ladies. They didn't even know me and said thank you. And this girl I like comes by me and she knows me. And I hold the door open for her and she just looks at me and didn't say thank you. Is that a good sign or bad sign?

2007-03-08 15:30:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok yeh 16 years olds i know ,we don't need to go there... its another sex question everyone be nice people.

My GF and i had sex like 75-80 time from 25 of october 2006 til now.. yep 90% not protected. I'm kinda not really but still worried even thought its happen before because i'm good at sex 30mins - 45mins yep ladies and there was one week, i call that week my premature ejaculation week the last week in november 2006 because it was mest up i came fast ALOT.

During that week (no protection) during sex about twice i felt like something came out of me whiles in her ????? Don't know what the fack it was. thought it was precum but people say you don't feel it. that week was all mest up thought she was pregant cuz she got her period dec, jan, feb.


Long story short, its now the 8 of march and 3 days ago i felt the same thing like liquid came out wasn't close to coming, pull out to see if anything was there but nothing was. can someone tell me what it was or my baby can't get pregg?

2007-03-08 15:12:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im turning 12 and Im having a birthday party at home.What should I do at my party?Im also having a sleepover what can I do besides watch movies,stay up late,truth or dare,silly string fights,and other things like that?Please Help Me!!

2007-03-08 14:56:39 · 9 answers · asked by Jane B. 3

does going on the pill make your periods hurt less?

2007-03-08 14:41:19 · 31 answers · asked by :D haha 4

2007-03-08 14:33:16 · 14 answers · asked by dexfc 2

Just list 'em please! The more the better.

2007-03-08 14:31:54 · 20 answers · asked by ♪~♥~♫~♥~♪ 3

She is so horrible to be around. She was a dificult infant, toddler and child. She is rude, disrespectful, unfeeling, mean, um, I am running out of adjectives. Everything is a fight. I am nice to her and try to leave her alone, but anything I say, she bites my head off. She says nothing is wrong. Her father and I are married, no siblings in the house, she does ok in school (performing arts high school) and is very active in dance. Everything I do drives her crazy. When does a 14 year old girl stop hating her mother?

2007-03-08 13:24:18 · 27 answers · asked by Grandma 2

Hey im 14 my 17 year old sister is 2 months pregent and she hasnt told our mom and i promised that i wouldnt tell mom what do it do and im scared for her what should i do
thanks for answering my question

2007-03-08 12:43:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

im worried sick looking at her cut herself up everytime she thinks of him. he is in australia, really far and has no clue of her state. she contemplated ending her life and now she cuts herself to ease the pain of her broken heart. what should i do? i cant see my daughter bleed herself. i want to call her ex and make him talk to her and hopefully she will listen. do u think i should make that call?

2007-03-08 12:36:14 · 47 answers · asked by shravya r 1

Condom slip while sex, can I be pregnant?
I was having sex and using a spermecide condom, and it slipped and the condom was on my lap..it was no big thing..until this week came and i was suppose to get my period 3 days ago and i havent yet..my boyfriend did not *** in the condom..am i just freaking out? or should i bee worried? please help me..this is killing me..i will appreciate help a lot and advice.
Julia

I REPEAT HE DID NOT PUT HIS PENIS BACK IN MY VAGINA THE CONDOM SLIPPED AND HIS PEINIS DID NOT GO INSIDE WITH OUT A CONDOM.

2007-03-08 12:32:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents moved me to flordia from NJ. I loved new jersey and i had to give up my best friend of 13 years. I am 14 years old. Please give me some effective ideas on how to convince my parents to move home. I hear them saying how much they miss home but they have not done anything.

2007-03-08 12:16:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do people make fun of people's weight, race, athletic ability, how they look and even possibly what they eat. Why would someone want to hurt someone's feeling if they didn't do anything to them in the first place?

2007-03-08 12:10:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a girl has scars on her legs? I'm not talking like ghastly scars that look like you took a knife and tried to amputate your leg off a dozen times because you're manicly depressed or something, but just like several [or some] scars here and there on your legs.

2007-03-08 11:58:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-08 11:51:53 · 13 answers · asked by shravya r 1

ok so, i use "lady speed stick" for my anti-perspirant/deodarant and no matter how often i use it, i still sweat sumtimes..and it is soooo nasty!! i am a clean freak wen it comes to my body soo ya...please help! wut should i do about it, and are there any brands that are really good at stopping the sweat??

2007-03-08 11:10:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I developing slowly?
It seems that lately my friends have been becoming different from me lately. I sit with them at lunch and all that they talk about is what party they were at, whose house is the best to sleep at. They never included me at these parties and that was a little aggravating. Now they are all about partying and drinking. There conversations are all about if they should get drunk before or after the dance. I have absolutely no interest in going out and getting drunk. Is there something wrong with me? Everyone says teens go through a rebellious stage, but that has never come for me? Am I weird?

2007-03-08 10:55:05 · 31 answers · asked by lexusright 1

I'm an underaged smoker, a habit which my parents would be very mad if they found out. If I just smoke one cigarrette every 2 or 3 days, in open air, and I don't go home for 2-3 hours, will they be able to smell it? What if I use Axe? Please just answer the question and don't go flaming me for smoking underaged. Thanks for all those who answer the actual question.

o yeah, I'm just smoking regular Marlboros.

2007-03-08 10:52:15 · 26 answers · asked by Harmonics 1

im 16 and i think im pregnant. i had sex sunday and i was suppose to have come on my period monday. but i havent. i have been feeling like im about to come on my period but its nothing there. i have been very sick like almost vomiting, and i have been very tired.i have been having mood swingsalso.... could this mean i am pregnant? i cant go by a pregnancy test because i dont wont my to know until i find out for sure.i cant go to the doctor. is it a way of knowing with out a pregnancy test being done?

2007-03-08 10:39:10 · 18 answers · asked by im a princezz alwayz 1

Hi all ;)

My name's Dinah, I'm 19-years-old and the mother of a beautiful baby girl, Hazel-Marie. Hazel-Marie's father, my ex-boyfriend, kicked us out of his apartment recently and, since then, we've been living at my parents' house. I love my daughter more than I could have ever imagined, but lately I've been going through some depressive emotions about the break-up and actually find it hard at times to be around Hazel-Marie.

So what I'd like to know is if this behavior is bad and should I get professional help or is it just a stage? Thank you so much for your replies, have a nice night ;)

2007-03-08 10:17:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many of you guys remember when hit clips were the thing to have? Now everybody wants an ipod, but I still remember When you could get a hit clip in your happy meal at McDonalds with music from either Britney (when she was still sane), Christina Aguilera, or *Nsync. Good ole days. For those of you age 9 and under you prbably have no idea what i'm talking about.

2007-03-08 10:06:41 · 25 answers · asked by ~♥~K~♥~ 4

Should I give my bf anoher chance...........he used to be my best friend...............but he tried to get me to do it w/ him, he apologized and hugged me really close..i like him.......shhould i give him a second chance?????????

2007-03-08 09:55:55 · 13 answers · asked by luckylove713 3

how do you burn a c.d off the computer? do you have to go to a web site or wut? thanx for the help!

2007-03-08 09:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this kid i know and she is a total
be-otch! she has the biggest attitude ever!!
and she thinks she's all that! she gives everyone
dirty looks and no one likes her. she needs to
be put in her place! but how? is my question!

2007-03-08 09:00:39 · 12 answers · asked by UH-MAN-DUH!! 3

Shes not that hot, but eventhough she puts me hot, last thursday we been makin out and every thing, but she said me at last "i cant continue" She likes an other guy. How can i convince her she'd rather be with me?? I talk her by internet and now she ignores me...

2007-03-08 08:43:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I knew this girl whos in other school and the only chance of seeing her is in big parties. Shes extremly hot. What means extremly difficult. what can i do??

2007-03-08 08:35:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous