Should I give my bf anoher chance...........he used to be my best friend...............but he tried to get me to do it w/ him, he apologized and hugged me really close..i like him.......shhould i give him a second chance?????????
2007-03-08 09:55:55 · 13 answers · asked by luckylove713 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i wanted to do it but i was sceared (im 14) and it was sorta hot actually
2007-03-08 10:11:25 · update #1
Neither of you should do it., but give him a second chance, I think you should. If he wasn't forcing you, then it was such a bad thing, however, don't do anything your not ready to do. Your fourteen, be a kid and don't do something you'll regret later.
2007-03-08 10:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up to you hon, you knew it was not the right time for you and let him know it! Good for you.
It is hard to take a guy seriously when they outright beg for sex, not to mention completely unsexy and annoying! Go ahead and give him a second chance, he should know what he is up against now.
Edit: The first time you have sex is never like the media and hollywood (magazines, TV, movies) potray it. Do it with some one you love, 90% of the time it is not your first boyfriend.
2007-03-08 18:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Myra G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, give him another chance but remind him that you are still young and you will do when your are ready ( I mean when you are ready and completely sure of what you are doing and you are sure you want to do this and you are much much older). 14 is way to young to do this and I can't believe all the teenagers that have sex before age 18!!!!! good for you, you should really wait, I asked on yahoo when people lost their virginity and most the of the ones that said that they lost it before age 16 regretted it, you really don't want to regret something like this!!!!!!!!! good luck
2007-03-08 21:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I really don't think so. If he can't respect your wishes to remain celebate, and he tries to tempt you, I don't think it's a good idea. It is best to find someone who is like-minded and wants to not complicate things with sex. It is NOT prude to wait until marriage. As much as I love my DBF and my kids, I still sometimes really wish I would have waited-cuz I know that is still what the Bible says we should do.
2007-03-08 18:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by MamiZorro2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should give him another chance.
Guys will be guys, but if he tries again, break up with him.
Just stay safe and make sure he can't harm you.
God Bless.
2007-03-08 18:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He broke a trust barrier why trust him??? so he can go and do that to you again. Lets say that you go back with him and you do it and he leaves you what is he gonna tell his and your friends that your a S L U T and easy???? If they do it once they will alwasys do it again.
2007-03-08 19:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by TipMaster69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now he knows where you stand about the whole thing. but if it happens again...definitely break up
2007-03-08 18:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by dont-ask-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him and he likes u then keep going out with him and dont pay mind his *****
2007-03-11 17:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wanted to do it with you i think you shold get a better bf.
2007-03-08 17:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, its a guy hting. as long as he noever does it again
2007-03-08 18:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by Elena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋