he is 10, he thinks that he is a bad person because of the thoughts that he has. he has thoughts about girls,kissing,cusing, and ect. i told him that it's not a bad thing as long as he doesnot act or hurt anyone or himself.and i told him tha's justpart of growing up but he said that he can't help it but to feel guilty inside because of his thoughts. he crys and tells me that no matter what i say he still feels like a bad person, i sound like a brocken record i tell him over and over again, " baby it's just part of growing up and your a good person". I don't know what else to do, i don't want him to feel guilty and likea bad person, i tell him toturn bad thoughts in to good ones. I really don't know if it's really just part of growing up or if he is tryingto reach out tome and I lost and don't knowwhat to do.I want him to get the help he needs but if it's just a stage, I'm scared that the doctor will put him on pills. I'm not saying pills are bad but if it's just a stage? advise please?
2006-12-18
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