I divorced from my ex husband when my children were 3 and 1. He immediately got together with the woman he was cheating on me with and after a long (over 1 year) custody battle, he ended up winning custody. Not only because he told a ton of lies in court, but because he now had a two parent household and I had a single parent household.
My kids are now 10 and 12. I have every other weekend visitation and holidays. Lately they've been saying they don't want to come see me, because they want to play with their friends and do all the fun things their dad and step mom tell them they missed out on when they're with me. I try as hard as I can to make their time fun with me, but since I only have them 4 days a month, our time is obviously limited.
How do you handle it when your child tells you they don't want to see you? I love my children with all my heart and I'm torn-do I make them stay because I love them and want to see them any time I can, or do I let them go?
2006-08-18
15:50:09
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helpplz
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