ok like i dount wunt to hert my babby and i just got dune partying yesturday and i tokk a bunch of pills to day to get messed up with a bunch of friends and like i just found out i am and i think i might have hert my babby oh god plez some 1 help me plez tell me what can hert or kill my babby so i dount ebd up doing that and should i keep partying
2006-08-18 16:20:30 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You live in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma -- right? There's a "Planned Parenthood" building at this location:
818 S Aspen Ave
Broken Arrow, OK 74012
Or, you can just call 1.800.230.PLAN (1-800-230-7526) and they should connect you with that place. I put the planned parenthood website in my sources.
2006-08-18 16:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey go to see the doctor and let him or her know what kind of pills they were. depending on what they were and how Manny you took, it could be kind of dangerous. At the same time you have to remember that the first trimester of you're pregnancy is the first stages of development. The heart beats after 72 hours from conception . It is a scary thing to deal with, and birth defects could occur. If you are really that scared go to see the doctor, that is always the best bet. And a Dr. would be able to help more then anyone on here would. Best of luck to you and the child. I really hope that all is well for you . OK I just read some of the answers that some people have been giving you . Baby girl, don't feel bad for being a lil bit wild, we all went through it too . There are some things on here that are going to make you cry and make you think really hard about what you should and shouldn't do . When it comes dow to it, trust you're heart and it will let you know what you should do . But I think that you should really go see a Dr. on monday morning or earlier if you can . Honey don't let some of these people get you down . All people are good people, just some are so insensative that they do not realize that what they say could be potentally harmfull to others . I have 2 children of my own, and I did some things that I know I shouldn't have done while I was pregnant . But my kids are healthy and happy . Just try to calm down on the partying because in 9 months you are going to get the best and hardest job that a woman will ever have. You are going to be a Mother :) that is so great . Keep a smile on your'e face and your'e chin up .
2006-08-18 17:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has to be a big joke. Or you are the most messed up thinker girl in the world. You are a drug addict and you think of no one but yourself. You can not communicate like a English human and you must not think of anything but partying.
You have had your fun and drugs for now. You have a good chance that your baby is effected by your reckless immature and crazy thought process. First you party all the time as you say, why is that? So you can get high and then have sex, so you can get pregnant and give birth to a baby? Then on top of that you want to know what to do? Then you ask should you continue to party? I don't agree with abortion but sometimes there are limits to sanity. You are so immature you do not know your limits and think getting high and partying is a way of life. You have no concept of reality. I would suggest you do abort this child.. get clean, find a tutor to help you communicate, and find some one to help your thought process so that you can actually function in society. Then after all that you want to party, take drugs, have sex and get pregnant, then at least you will understand who you are.
This really has to be a joke. NO ONE IS THIS STUPID. RIGHT?
Ok by the way... Yes STOP your partying and pill popping. See a baby doctor. Follow his or her instructions, go home and tell your parents as 12 years should not be partying. YOU do need help and here is not a place to find it.
2006-08-18 16:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Or another idiot? If your for real, then of course quit partying unless you want a possibly deformed, or brain damaged baby! I think you're joking because I've seen some crappy spellers on here, but they usally manage to get a word or two right. Any ways, If you dont quit, when your deformed, brain damaged baby comes out then you can just prop it in the corner, and put what ever alcohol and pills you're on at the time into it's bottle, and blow pot smoke in it's face.! Hee hee hee! Won't that be funny? What an idiot! I seriously hope you are not pregnate! You need to go back to school, and learn how to spell for one thing, graduate, and get some skills (legal ones) before you think about bringing any baby into your world! Straighten up and act right before somebody smacks you! Sheesh!
2006-08-18 16:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by vspaulo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should stop partying you can hurt your baby you can have a miscarriage. If you did it a few times before u knew u are probably ok. Now that u know u can stop so your baby doesnt come out going through withdrawls or having birth defects. You can go 9 mths for the sake of your baby.If you cant then you probably arent ready to have a baby.Please stop!!Get help if u have to and remember this baby didnt ask to be born,the responsibility is yours.God Bless and Good Luck!!
2006-08-18 16:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by hotmama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow i cant believe your doing all of this and your only 14! it seems liek you want to grow up too quickly, you maybe hurting the baby but you are also hurting yoursefl. your body and organs arent fully developed yet so they are reakky taking a beathing, thats why the drinking age is set at 21, so your body will be able to handle it now, you may not be able to notice it now but you will in the long run. if i were you i would have the baby aborted if it inst too late or if your against abortion i would give it up for adoption. trust me you do not want to be a teen mother! you have your whole life ahead of you, high school, college and a carreer then marriage and then you start having babies! i think you are too young to be doing all of this, and im sorry that your paretns are always out of town but i think they would be disappointed th at you are living this secret life when you are not around. do you know who the father is,? if you decide to keep it you will probbaly need to drop out of school since your parents are always away but school is the most important thing for you and so one of them would have to give up their job/dream to saty home ard raise YOUR child which isnt fair. good luck to you and hopefully change your attitude(im sure your a nice girl, b ut you have to stop this crazy life you're living!) for the better and use protection next time! im sorry you're going through all of this at such a young age. but please even when your in high school and in college dont party! bad things can happen ive heard too many storied from friends
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god luck though sweetie be strong! tell your parents, face to face and just say you made a mistake and you need their help =)
2006-08-19 05:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, ask God for help. Ask Him for guidance in stopping the partying and drinking. Go to a pregnancy center nearby, and get a referral to a good ob (not an abortionist). Stop the partying. Yes, it is hard, but find an Alcoholics Anon. or Narc. Anon. or whatever you have in your community to get some help. Your baby was given to you for a reason, and he or she will give you great joy, whether you have her for a moment or for a 100 years. I miscarried a baby, and it was very hard on me. I have grown to understand that it was special, the short time I had with him, and that he is in heaven, praying for me and for his dad and siblings. You can get help. This baby loves you. If you do lose him or her, do not beat yourself up. Stop the partying and get some help. Don't let them talk you into an abortion. That baby deserves better, and so do you. God bless you and your little one.
2006-08-18 16:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by helpwithhousework 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can still have fun with you friends, but stop the drinking and pill popping. Those can definately hurt the baby and you! You shouldn't put anything into your body like that because it goes to your baby as well. If you want to keep having fun, then great but don't sacrifice your unborn just for the pleasures of partying. The little one deserves better than that.
2006-08-18 16:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by lilbitadevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 17 i had my baby when i was 16. I partyed smoked pot and all of that alright. I think i did it while i was pregnant. But what you need to do is go to the doctors and get a altra sound. They are kinda cool you get little pictures of the baby. IF you wanna have the baby STOP partying and get serious its time to grow up! After i had the baby i had someone watch him so i can party then i get him at night when he is asleep when i go to sleep!! it can be a tough job!
2006-08-18 19:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by Tabitha S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by harrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but you need to learn how to spell some things, honey. And if you are pregnant, why are you partying in the first place?? I think you need to wait a while until the "partying stage" is over for you and you are ready to settle down, then have a baby, okay?? Good Luck!!
2006-08-19 07:05:34 · answer #11 · answered by Isabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋