I'm 26 and a few months shy of 27.
I'm abnormally shy, have a severe fear of rejection, have major self worth issues, clinical depression.. no self confidence.... and tend to hibernate in my house.
it's no wonder why I'm still a virgin.My biggest fear isn't even never losing my virginity, it's actually dying alone. The two tend to go be related in alot of ways though.
As of now.. I realize I need to get my mental outlook in order and although it sounds like one giant cliche, learn to care about myself, before I can expect someone else to.
My two part question is below
Simply put have things like my depression and my negative self outlook, already sealed the deal? Am I likely to spend my days alone and virgin at this point? (things like paying are out)I will go without, before resorting to that). and I'm not capable of sex with just anyone. Has to be a real bond.
Also is 30 a fair cutoff point? Meaning if thing's haven't happened by then, should I give up?
2006-09-02
17:24:50
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