my bf has never been violent towards me, but dose that mean it will stay that way?? or am i fooling my self into one day becoming a victim by trying to ignore his increasingly angry and physical behavior, and threats on others (even whan im the only one who hears him)???? hes a recovering alcoholic and has relapsed 3 x's in the last month (after almost 5 sober)........the last incident was on the 24th----where he got a d.u.i. and he JUST told me last night!!! im smart enough to know the warning signs, but-------i dont want to set him off by trying to laydown some boundaries......im scared, but not scared enough????? please helpif you have any advice or definitly if you have expierienced this also...........how/when do u say enough! when it could pose more damage to not only me, but him, or others????? PLEASE!!!! i also have substance abuse in my history, self-injury, and anorexia, and a list of diagnoses and medications------i need help while im able to ask..........thanks---
2007-01-04
12:45:00
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cokocobain
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