Singles & Dating - 18 December 2007

Once he cheats (and there is no doubt about it), the relationship is over. When trust is gone, I absolutely cannot bring myself to stay in that relationship, even if he swears it will never happen again. I just cannot believe him ever again. Anyone else feel the same way? Is this unrealistic?

2007-12-18 08:27:16 · 11 answers · asked by Peachy Keen 2

i have a choice of liking/going out with three guys - let's call them "bob", "joe", and "ean"

bob is nice, funny, and likes me very much. But, he is unpopular and not really all that attractive. Also, he's a little immature. I'm a little worried what people will say about me going out with him.

joe is very cute, nice, funny, and also likes me veryyy much. He tells me all the time that I'm beautiful. But, he doesn't talk to me alot. Also, he lied to a few people that he saw me naked.

ean is amazingly cute, and has an amazing music taste [the same as me]. He tells me everyday that i have beautiful eyes, and gives me that "giddy" feeling. I realllly feel a connection. The problem is that he has a long-term girlfriend, and i have heard from others that he just uses girls for sex.

opinions??

2007-12-18 08:27:03 · 49 answers · asked by brookee. 1

I heard Santa really likes naughty girls

2007-12-18 08:26:37 · 8 answers · asked by goodgirlabout2gobad 6

How many women have ever dated an unattractive guy because he had money? Be Honest ladies

2007-12-18 08:25:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My highschool coach just up and quit and in desperation my school asked one of the guys from the local college come and coach it this season. He is a senior and really really hot. I turned 18 about 3 weeks ago so it is legal. He is 21, thats only a 3 fricken year difference! I really tried hitting on him during the season but he like flipped out and would never be in the same room with me alone. But the season is over so how do I do it? I heard about this college party going on so I went last weekend hoping that he would be there. And sure engough he was! But as soon as he saw me there he seemed really pissed off. I ran over and gave him a huge hug and he was like hey listen you dont belong here. You should be haning around all your highschool friends. And then he said I better not catch you drinking either otherwise Im going to sit you out in track. But I wouldnt leave so he kinda slowly walked away from me and left the party! I was so pissed off.

2007-12-18 08:23:55 · 7 answers · asked by Ashely85 1

Girls: Which one do you like the boy with hair? Long hair or short hair as Marine or something about this?

Boys: Which one do you like the girl better?
Normal girl, Hot girl, or same height as you or what kind of girl?

Both: I can't choose one of my firend. I like that girl. One is something as goth---* girl or pretty girl and she is same height as me.

* I can't spelling it. I mean the girl or boy who alway wear all black clothes everyday.

2007-12-18 08:23:06 · 25 answers · asked by Zpider 20-0 5

it just seems like its such a rapidly growing up and coming kink, i wonder if anyone else has noticed it.

some psychology student might have a better reason for it, but if you ask me, if its happening it has to do with changing times. women by nature have a certain amount of sexual freedom becuse they are the choosers, but have been reigned in with labels, threats, and practicality. In a world where women don't have to marry a man to feed herself or be independent of her parents, and she can prevent pregnancy and vd through safe practices, why shouldn't she do what comes naturally

i, for one, think some women are naturally a little (not alot) promiscuous (studies show this is true, particularly during ovulation, as women have evolved to want one type of man to pass on genes to their children, and another to support them - whether you beleive that mumbo jumbo), and i think a day is coming where not even marriage will stop women from enjoying what mother nature has given them.

2007-12-18 08:17:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think it's sexy? Does it turn you on? Do you like for her to keep it on during the deed? Is it a waste of time? What colors do you like? I need some male input :)

2007-12-18 08:15:05 · 18 answers · asked by BeAuTiFuLlYbRoKeN 2

how can you tell and what kind of feelings do you usually have towards the person i.e what makes them different to other guys or girls you have liked?

2007-12-18 08:11:48 · 13 answers · asked by rockyroad 2

I am in Cal and I have been seen this guy for over a year. He lives in my hometown TEXAS where my entire family is at. I have this rising career that demands a lot of me and allows me very little time to visit home.

This guy has my heart and is a very amazing warm hearted person… I keep canceling my trips to see him because my work is in a high demand of me! This breaks him into pieces and he is studying for his Masters and cant move over here… we want to move our Long distance relationship to another level because we both want to see each other more! He is tired of seen me only once every 2 or sometimes 3 months. What should I do? He fufills my heart and takes my breath away! But my career gives me the stability and security... I come from a low budget family and I am scared of not having enough money to take care of myself! Ohh I know I am an emotional mess right now he told me that he want to step away from our relationship because the distance and my work is just hurting him!

2007-12-18 08:11:41 · 25 answers · asked by Just ME 2

Well all my buddies I dumped my boyfriend! You guys were right I totally confessed my cheating and I feel better. But there is more trouble.My new sex buddy wants me to be slutty.He likes it. But we dont really want to be boyfriend and girlfriend its just sex.I dont mind it. But if we're just sex buddies then why should he care if I'm slutty? He always calls me going "What are you doing" or "Hey sexy whats up" I dont care to talk thats the whole point but he ACTS like my boyfriend. We already discussed I dont want a serious relationship. But why does he call and always want to talk or ask me out? I do like him but I dont want anything serious. Am I being a hoe or a bioch? I'm a total hazard to the relationship world! I just dont want to be in a relationship. Plus why do I have to meet his parents? We're not dating. Should I go out with him or like dump the whole sex thing?

2007-12-18 08:09:36 · 33 answers · asked by tiffinynb93 3

I just met a really nice man not very long ago at all, he's a cop. He's much older than I am, but very attractive. He seems to be very caring and understanding. We talk as if we've known each other for months. However, he told me that he's falling in love with me! I've been hearing a lot of creepy stories about cops and the women in their lives. Should I be creeped out???

2007-12-18 08:07:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

everyone really thinks that i am not that kinda guy cause i am very sensitive and do a bunch of stuff do you know what to do

2007-12-18 08:07:09 · 10 answers · asked by Bob Swarts 1

2007-12-18 08:06:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I dated a guy for about a month. We then went to different colleges, but he'd call at least 3 times a week, and showed that he was interested in many ways. This continued for about 3 months, and still continues, BUT after 3 months he said he thought he made it clear that he was not ready for commitment at his age, and wanted to just be friends! Plus, he said I was the most genuine person he knew besides his best friend. When we dated, he told me I was beautiful and had a great personality as well. A.K.A. I'd make a perfect girlfriend for him, lol. Well, when I'm in school, he calls A LOT, more than any of my other friends actually. But, when we're on break, the calls stop. He told me he'd call me and a week has passed... Should I call him, as friends do,or just do nothing? Also, should I express how frustrated I am at the whole situation, or would I just look like an idiot?

2007-12-18 07:58:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 07:56:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 07:53:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 07:51:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey everyone-
just so everyone is clear- I look way too far into things and analyze everything because that's just the kind of person I am. I take everything way too literally and want to know why this person said this and why that person said that. So please don't think I'm insane when I ask what this conversation means and how you would think of it.
FrEnChShIp3 (3:23:16 PM): hey hi
free2hang37 (3:23:27 PM): hold on
FrEnChShIp3 (3:23:28 PM): k
free2hang37 went away at 3:23:38 PM.
free2hang37 (3:23:45 PM): k
free2hang37 (3:23:53 PM): i didnt feel like talkin to everyone else
FrEnChShIp3 (3:23:54 PM): lol
just so you all know, I'm frenchship3 and my friend is free2hang37. we're both 13 and he knows i like him. The last time we talked about crushes and stuff (before he knew I liked him) he said he didnt like anyone but he wanted to be with someone. what he meant i have no idea. maybe you guys can analyze it for me.

2007-12-18 07:49:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/;_ylc=X3oDMTE1MmI4N2IyBF9TAzIxMTU1MDAxMTgEc2VjA2Fuc19ub3QEc2xrA3N1YmplY3Q-;_ylv=3?qid=20071214180950AAyCp5a

please and thankyou

2007-12-18 07:43:41 · 21 answers · asked by =)™ 5

I have some weird psycological problem...everytime I have a boyfriend no matter how much I like him and how well he treats me I always have the urge to cheat...I get bored with the relationship to quickly anyone have advice?

2007-12-18 07:39:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

And let's please stay away from the obvious, good body, etc. What makes a girl attractive to you, strong, not whiny, not clingy, etc. Thanks!

2007-12-18 07:38:45 · 13 answers · asked by Gigi 2

I have met what seems to be a great guy. He told me that he still maintains realtionships with all his ex's. I was ok with this at first but he says how his ex's get jealous when they start to think how he kisses and treats other woman. (He's a very romantic guy, hope that makes sense) so to me, it seems his ex's still have feelings for him; because wouldn't they be happy for him instead of being jealous?? I don't know if I'm overthinking or being blind. PLEASE HELP!!

2007-12-18 07:38:08 · 17 answers · asked by J 2

he has loved me forever, but i have never even liked him.
now his friends are telling him to forget me and move on with his life. his is doing whatever he can to get me pis.sed off. and it is working. he is/ was a really good friend of mine should i give him a present?

2007-12-18 07:35:38 · 7 answers · asked by *simplygorgeous* 2

girls, does your (head) hair ever get in the way during sex?
and guys... whats your preference re: hair, and the hair down there situation?

2007-12-18 07:28:43 · 18 answers · asked by Katie K 4

i went to a party and we were both drunk and she was a bit of a flirt with all the guys but we were always close on that night and whenever i passed she wud ask me to sit nxt to her or hug her. we neva acctually kissed but i thought she was like it with everyone but the next day everyone thought we were goin to get together because of what we were like the night before. so does she really like me or was it just the drink ?

2007-12-18 07:26:23 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous

but he was in a financial strap and said he would give me the best sex of my life if I gave him money I took it as a joke but he kept insisting that it would be worth it and said that he would tell anyone else the same except he thought since were best friends it would work better for us so I went ahead and did it but before I gave him the money I said that it wasnt for the sex but because I cared about him and sympythasized with his situation. We had a great relationship but later I found out that he wanted to have sex with a friend of mine I told him would he have asked her for money like me and he said no. I got upset and stopped talking to him. How could a man be so insensitive? Should I ask him for the money back and end the friendship all together?

2007-12-18 07:19:03 · 13 answers · asked by Crystal C 2

make a long story short we been 2gether for a year and 3 months.she has my name tatooed on her back.She lives with me in ny.She had a hard life,mom died when she was young and her father was abusive.She has a godmother that she considers her mother and fam.The house is over crowded.Here's the list of people who live there,godmothr,3 sisters age 20,18 and 15 all got kids.one of the sister's babyfather lives there,a recovering crackhead who is the mother cousin they live in nj.Her 3 godsisters expect her to buy stuff for the baby and take care of them like she helped bring them in the world.They constantly expect her to babysit and they always want her to buy the babies things.I told her if thats the case we might as well have our own baby lol.
What should I do about this situation?

I posted a similar question a few days ago.If you read it you'll understand.http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak.bMxQDcjdhHg_fvVk4aN7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071216213241AAtyjSs

what should I do?

2007-12-18 07:18:46 · 1 answers · asked by ratchet 1

When girls break up with you or turn you down wht don't you get it. Why do all of you continue to make an a$$ outta yourself? If we tell you once then that's what we mean, most of the time were not still debating it. Why won't guys accept that if we don't like them we dont, or if we don't wanna go out, we don't. Why is that so hard to understand? I know I sound like a frigid ice witch, but I really don't care. Some one please explain.

2007-12-18 07:17:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering.....Im 5"9, I have long brunette hair, Im originaly from Russia, i speak 3 languages. I know how to dance & sing, I love having fun, going to the movies, im crazy, i love animals, i love walking on the beach at sunset, im athletic, i have a belly button peircing, im loyal, i trust easily, and im a virgin.

2007-12-18 07:07:47 · 23 answers · asked by No Name 4