i went to a party and we were both drunk and she was a bit of a flirt with all the guys but we were always close on that night and whenever i passed she wud ask me to sit nxt to her or hug her. we neva acctually kissed but i thought she was like it with everyone but the next day everyone thought we were goin to get together because of what we were like the night before. so does she really like me or was it just the drink ?
2007-12-18 07:26:23 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls get easy when they drink
2007-12-18 07:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by My Sharona 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
being drunk removes inhibitions, a lot of times this will reveal things she doesn't want to know. Did she say anything to you like "I've always liked you" or "Why haven't we ever gotten together"? If that's the case, then I'd talk with her about how you feel.
If she was just talking close and realy touchy feeling with everyone, it may just have been the drink. You could always try flirting with her when she's sober and see what happens though.
2007-12-19 17:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one is kinda ify because..Some girls when drunk just want attention from any guy..so that can be a no..
but..
Drinking also boost up confidence and makes u do things you normally wouldnt do..so if she does like you she thought it would be a good thing to go with you ..
so she might or might not like you...
Either way It is a very good thing you are a gentleman and didnt try to take advantage of her being drunk..Big props to you there arent so many guys who wouldnt even at least make a pass at kissing her or even more..
2007-12-18 07:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably mostly the drink as it causes loss of inhibitions and judgment. She could have been coming on to you to make someone else there jealous, not caring what the consequences were. It could also mean that there were some hidden feelings comming to the surface, but for the most part, I'd act like nothing happened, because probably nothing really did.
2007-12-18 07:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Joe D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, I wouldn't read anything into anyone's drunk behavior. However, it's always possible alcohol made her relax enough to express liking for you that she couldn't when sober. To see if this is the case, try talking to her and see what she's like. Maybe even try asking her out. The fact that you didn't hook-up while she was drunk probably would work in your favor here.
2007-12-18 07:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she was drunk...have you never been drunk around people before? Some people get a few drinks in em and get a little loose. You can ask her if she is into you, but I'm guessing she was just a little too drunk to know what she was doing.
2007-12-18 07:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by TG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it might have been the alcohol. although true feelings can sometimes come out when you've been drinking.
if you guys don't know each other i would say that she was just drunk and feeling excited.
I know when i'm drunk i get a little crazy and think every guy in the room looks good.
it's just that we see things differently and lose most of our lack of self confidence, or we just don't see flaws like we would if we were straight headed.
2007-12-18 07:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by katiecole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably just drunk. But maybe if your life is like the movie Superbad you will run into her at the mall tomorrow and you guys can go out to eat together and begin your life as a couple together.
2007-12-18 07:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by Caspari246 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means absolutely nothing. In fact, in the state of California, it is illegal to have sexual relations with a girl who is drunk. When you introduce alcohol, she's confused and has a difficult time making decisions. Everything is a "good idea" when you're drunk.
So, no, it didn't mean jack. Sorry.
2007-12-18 07:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you treated her like a lady, then there's a real chance you can go for it. Remember that alcohol has a way of loosening inhibitions. Like the old saying goes, "in vino veritas" in wine there is truth!
2007-12-18 07:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by Steven D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a combination of both things. Don't read too much into it. Get to know her when she's sober and you'll be much better off -- you'll get to know the real her and find out if she likes you when she isn't under the influence of alcohol.
2007-12-18 07:29:33 · answer #11 · answered by mari 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋