but he was in a financial strap and said he would give me the best sex of my life if I gave him money I took it as a joke but he kept insisting that it would be worth it and said that he would tell anyone else the same except he thought since were best friends it would work better for us so I went ahead and did it but before I gave him the money I said that it wasnt for the sex but because I cared about him and sympythasized with his situation. We had a great relationship but later I found out that he wanted to have sex with a friend of mine I told him would he have asked her for money like me and he said no. I got upset and stopped talking to him. How could a man be so insensitive? Should I ask him for the money back and end the friendship all together?
2007-12-18 07:19:03 · 13 answers · asked by Crystal C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah I thought I was helping out a great friend ... hell I wasnt thinking that was the problem. My loss you are right. I will let this friendship go and move on. Thanks for all the honest answers!!!!
2007-12-18 08:22:14 · update #1
What were you thinking...anyone who will make an offer like that is no friend..... he is thinking this is a easy way to make money.... what a lazy bum....cut him loose and never do this again.... girl you deserve better....
2007-12-18 07:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he offered you sex for money that should have been your first clue that he was insensitive.
Whether you will ever get your money back I do not know. Now that you know what he is you will have to decide for yourself how close or distant from him you want to be.
2007-12-18 07:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tim C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no how will he/she has sex with a friend . they would end thier friends ship because the feeling would change and if i were she or he i wouldnt have sex with a friend better live virgin till i get married and that is better . thank u 4 the question happy smile 2 u
2016-05-24 22:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls weren't this naive when I was in school.
Sure, go ahead and ask for the money back. He certainl;y won't think are are any more daffy than he did when you agreed to pay him to have sex with you.
2007-12-18 07:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by doug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was not looking for a girl friend so why should you be upset? I'd love to find a girl to pay me to have sex with her, U have any sisters ??
2007-12-18 07:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not gonna get your money back but do yourself a favor and cut this friendship off. It'll do you good.
2007-12-18 07:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by totalbeyotch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad how we give yourselves away. God has so much more for each of us. You are of more value than to be with guys like that, even if they are "friends." True friends will not ask you to do stuff like that.
2007-12-18 07:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by str8_op 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU SERIOUS ? come on, really. That's a line I thought would never had worked. If you payed to have sex, sorry, your loss.......and it doesn't sound like he was after any committment........live with it
2007-12-18 07:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by mentallykornfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is you money, but it does not mean that you will get it back.
2007-12-18 07:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by Vitaliy D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang you can try, but I never knew that was possible with a girl.
2007-12-18 07:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by lapsuslingue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋