Are more and more men letting their gfs and wives have affairs?

Question

it just seems like its such a rapidly growing up and coming kink, i wonder if anyone else has noticed it.

some psychology student might have a better reason for it, but if you ask me, if its happening it has to do with changing times. women by nature have a certain amount of sexual freedom becuse they are the choosers, but have been reigned in with labels, threats, and practicality. In a world where women don't have to marry a man to feed herself or be independent of her parents, and she can prevent pregnancy and vd through safe practices, why shouldn't she do what comes naturally

i, for one, think some women are naturally a little (not alot) promiscuous (studies show this is true, particularly during ovulation, as women have evolved to want one type of man to pass on genes to their children, and another to support them - whether you beleive that mumbo jumbo), and i think a day is coming where not even marriage will stop women from enjoying what mother nature has given them.

Answer 1

I think everyone is so one-sided when it comes to who cheats on who more, the women say men do, the men say women do, but both sexes cheat. What we should be worried about is why everyone is so afraid of communicating with their partner about what's wrong in the relationship instead of just cowering and running to another source. A relationship takes two people to maintain it and to keep it healthy and alive and peope seem to forget that.

Answer 2

the only reason a man will let his woman to have an affair, is if he is weak and afraid of loosing her, or he gets off watching. In reality woment and men have affairs for different reasons. men to do a new body (varietal excitement) women to get the emotional/physical needs that are not being met by their husbands. like simple fact of being wanted when yoru husband sees you as a house keeper instead of a sexual woman. Divorce % was smaller before not because people were happier, but because misery was acceptable but divorce frowned upon. Now we don't want to live with misery, yet our society does not stress the importance to work on your relationship. thre are sex ed classes, but there are no Marriage 101 or children 101 for dummies classes. We only know what we learned from our parents when it comes to relationships. If your parents have it good, you have more chances at successfull marraiga, if you come from disfunctional background, how will you know what's the right way is? And of course, when troble hits, it's always the "other person's fault" there is never anything wrong with you, it's the other person, right;) thus, either divorce or an affair.

Answer 3

I guess it depends on the woman - I for one only want one man in my life at a time. I have NEVER cheated nor do I date more than one man at a time. I think you are generalizing way too much. I'm sure there are some women that don't want just one man - just like there are some men that will never be faithful to one woman.

Answer 4

I see alot of couples are getting into 3 somes now.

Answer 5

Tell you what .............

Leave Bob at home - come over - and we'll discuss it in a hot tub over a bottle of wine.

Answer 6

You love asking this question, don't you.

Answer 7

bob j, God have mercy on your soul !

Answer 8

Hmm...I don't know about that!

Answer 9

not good