Singles & Dating - 18 December 2007

so my boyfriend gave me his password on facebook.....and i was looking through his "sent" messages...

we've been going out for almost a year now, and he sent this message to some girl when we were going out for two months. tell me what you think.

"cute pics! i saw you at prom...... you looked good, i saw you at the last fire too with your b/f, you looked good then too!"

this was to some other girl who he goes to school with. but he's never mentioned her or anything... plz tell me what you think.

2007-12-18 14:10:57 · 25 answers · asked by scoot 1

2007-12-18 14:09:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like my own kids someday...it seems all the women I meet are single Moms. I want a nice family that starts with a male and female in love...and not a male and female, and her ex's love trophies.
Do I have a chance? Or should I just give up?

2007-12-18 14:07:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 14:07:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or is it that people don't want to deal with reality?

2007-12-18 14:03:37 · 6 answers · asked by mbaskin22 4

sometimes i think he likes me (my friend) and other times i don't. He talks to me the most. he flirts with me alot (but he is a big flirt with other girls). And every time a friend of mine is around us they'll say i like him or he likes me. And today she said it and he said yeah i know (but i didnt know if he was playing). And even before this happend in school he asked if he could call me so we could watch funny clips on youtube together. (btw we had such a great time laughing =P) and we also have youth together after school and we can play video games there so he always asks me to play games with him. (even though he already has enough friends to play with on there). And once he said this kinda like a joke (but i dont know if he ment it)(we were playing games at the time) "I like you and you always make me laugh I, mean I mean....." (there was silence after that. and if there is a specific game he knows i like he'll play it just for me. But my question is does he like me?

2007-12-18 14:00:51 · 3 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1

2007-12-18 14:00:49 · 4 answers · asked by jb r 1

http://s180.photobucket.com/albums/x239/kamcb88/Pics/ I want you to tell me if i am attractive and why or why not and what i COULD DO TO IMPROVE! Girls dont pay attention to me. I am nice and friendly, but have never got a 2nd look from a girl or dateI am 19! I am shy and dont conversate well with the babes. I want to know if it is my personality or looks that are the problem. Becuase even if i was good looking with a lame personality, you would think that girls would at least look at me....right?? Whats the deal, give me details thanx
PS im in the black and blueish shirt

2007-12-18 14:00:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i asked this girl out and she said she has a boyfriend. will i be rude if i start to ignore her?i need to move on and when i see her i get these feelings to come back which i know the girl doesnt feel the same.

2007-12-18 14:00:01 · 5 answers · asked by john beau 1

2007-12-18 13:58:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

love advice

2007-12-18 13:57:45 · 18 answers · asked by Starz Prett 1

I am a VIrgo girl who has two guys interested in me... one is a Gemini; the other a Capricorn.

I know Gemini's aren't supposed to be so compatible but does that even matter? How many of you take someones sign into account when deciding whether to date them or not?

2007-12-18 13:56:15 · 11 answers · asked by DarlingNicki 2

Wow. I just received in the mail, a drawing of me a friend of mine had drawn from a photo, along with a card. He had written on it all the things I love. So thoughtful, and what a gesture. How do you thank someone for something like this? I have been so down lately and this has lifted my spirits so much.

2007-12-18 13:53:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently a friend that I had casual sex told me that he had HIV. Oh I'm gay too. I got tested, and I tested pos for HIV. He told me there's people who are actually willing to become positive, or that I can join him infecting other people. I told him this was wrong.

But should I still have sex with people and just wear a condom? Should I tell people before, after, or never?

I know I was an unsuspecting neg who got pozzed.

:(

2007-12-18 13:47:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i recently went through a problem with my thyroid that was making me really moody. during this time, i said some mean to my gf online. she said that when i said that stuff, she put up huge walls around her. she broke up with me 3 weeks ago. i am now taking medication and my mood is better. i apologized for the way i acted. she said "i just have to take care of myself." she said i have to regain her trust and then she'll consider dating me. i asked her how to do this. and she said "just by talking to me." so that is what i am doing. we will talk about school and our friends and stuff. however, i feel like i can't make her laugh the way i used to bc i am sorta depressed she seems distant and hard to engage. i feel like if i say something wrong, she'll use it as reason to not be attracted to me. could this get better in time, if i talk to her and can she trust me again? or should i just stop talking to her? i really do love her. should i wait a cple weeks then address her behavior?

2007-12-18 13:47:04 · 1 answers · asked by the w 1

ugh..so their is this guy right and i have liked him for like 3 to 4 years and dated once and i tell myself i am in love with him but im only 14 can i really be in love? and now i have a b/f and i realllllllly like him this is our 3 time dating! and now im starting to talk to the kid im "in love" with again and now idk if this is really right for me to be with my ex again if i still have these BIG feelings for the other and he even says he misses me WAT DO I DO??

2007-12-18 13:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by souljagurl 2

one minute i luv my boyfriend then the next minute i hate him

2007-12-18 13:40:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so theres this guy who im friends with, lets say bob, and im pretty sure he likes me...he gave me a christmas card and one of my other friends told me bob likes me. But the thing is, i only like him as a friend- nothing more. What if he asks me out? what should i say? i dont want to hurt his feelings or be mean. Plus also i like sombody else, not bob

2007-12-18 13:38:12 · 1 answers · asked by NNNIA 2

ok me and my bf have been going out for like 9 months i am 13 just telling u that but anyway i think i want to break up with him but we have been great friends and i think i like him more as a friend that as a bf but i am not sure and there is this other guy and i think i like him but hes going out with my friend brittany and idk they might break up but help need some advice on how to know if u should break up with some one
OOOOO AND HE GOES TO JACKSON SO ITS A LONGDISTANT relasonship and i play sports and have to keep up my grades so calling him and all that i dont really have time for but idk HELP ME <:(

2007-12-18 13:36:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 13:35:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this might be the stupidest question to ask but i can't get over somebody for over a year... I need help.... dating other guys does not help and whenever i am with somebody else i can't get him off my mind.

2007-12-18 13:33:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 13:32:41 · 1 answers · asked by cablecar 1

I've always admired my friends's relationships. Their's are usually very stable and long term some for 4 to 5 years. I'm always the one that is either without a boyfriend or changing boyfriends. I'm really tired of it and I'm ready to be stable with one person for the next few years. I'm tired of back and forth in relationships. I can't see the problem and I don't believe the problem is me. I'm always the one getting hurt. It seems to me the guys don't flock to me unless its some creep. EEEW!!! If its not a "hook up" by one of my friends I usually don't find a boyfriend. I don't like to look for a guy I prefer them to look for me but right about now I feel pretty desperate. I really want to be in a relationship right now. I feel really lonely. What do I do? PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-12-18 13:32:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 13:30:25 · 37 answers · asked by kris kris 1

I'm lost. Its been 2 years since I've had a gf and I don't even get looks from girls anymore. So what can I do to look better?

http://a918.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/78/l_56cfaad284ffa75500918b694fd21bcd.jpg

2007-12-18 13:29:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 13:23:48 · 4 answers · asked by cornfedbarbie 3

I asked this girl out im wondering should i do on the first time she says she dont like real sweet guys what does she mean should i least give her a card are something i dont want to be to sweet.

2007-12-18 13:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by guy2008 3

What song do you think is best when you want to tell someone you are falling in love with them?
or give a quote immediately

2007-12-18 13:20:52 · 4 answers · asked by Kareena K 1

About 2 years ago walking in the halls at school on the first day, i saw this girl. She was amazing. It took me a year and a half to get the balls to talk to her. When i did i fell in love. She was perfect, i was not. I wrote more than 30 songs just for her. We got to be pretty good friends and then she told me at the end of the year she was moving to London. This broke my heart and it took me forever to get over it. She got a bf in London, and i was happy for her but i still had feelings for her. About 3 months ago we got into a really big stupid fight and she got really pissed at me.

Anyway, my point is i havent seen her in a year and i have changed alot. She is moving back on the 7th. What can i do to 1) be her friend again 2)get her to like me as more than a friend.

here is wat i look like:
http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f400/SgtPppr9751/SSPX0190.jpg
http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f400/SgtPppr9751/SSPX0244.jpg
http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f400/SgtPppr9751/SSPX0223.jp

2007-12-18 13:15:48 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3

i'm 15 and i've only had 3 boyfriends, none of which have lasted more than a week and they have all ended horribly.
what is wrong with me?
what should i do, i can't get a cute or decent boyfriend!
and you know that is depressing...

2007-12-18 13:13:09 · 1 answers · asked by omg.emma37 3