I would like my own kids someday...it seems all the women I meet are single Moms. I want a nice family that starts with a male and female in love...and not a male and female, and her ex's love trophies.
Do I have a chance? Or should I just give up?
2007-12-18 14:07:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plenty of women. I've dated many!
2007-12-18 14:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women have kids in their 20s, so they won't be too old when the kids get grown and are out on their own. Children aren't "love trophies" (that attitude is a big turn on for women, i'm sure *rolls eyes*) but if you don't care to be with a woman unless she gives birth to your "love trophies" then you may have a search on your hands.
I'm over 30 and no kids, but I don't desire any, and most women I've met near my age feel the same...although you will find some 30-somethings that are ready to start a family, if a woman hasn't had her first child by age 40 the chances of birth defects for kids she does have tends to drastically increase.
2007-12-18 14:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in a bad spot. women like to have their kids BY 30.... and if they dont hav eany there may be an underlying reason you may not get any kids. Why can you not love a women because she has her "ex's love trophies". This makes me think that you are a jealous and cold hearted towards children.
2007-12-18 14:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Clays mom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know several women over 30, single, without kids. You just have to look in the right place, like California or New York??
2007-12-18 14:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by theratznest 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are a few, but they may be hard to find. I know what you mean, I'm in my mid-30's. I'd like to find a guy without kids all over the place too.Just keep looking she's out there. Best of luck.
2007-12-18 14:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty. You are simply not looking in the right places or thinking about children as human beings and not small trophies. This may be your Nemesis.
2007-12-18 14:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lizbiz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of women over thirty with no kids. Look for a career minded woman, just remember that some of them have chosen to not have kids, ever.
2007-12-18 14:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by Dan H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have a chance but most of those women are career centered women and are much harder to find because they are stong and determined, not exactly the ones that are out their always on the prowl because they have already established lives for themselves
2007-12-18 14:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! That's sooooooo true!! Keep on the search! I'm sure you'll find her!
It's funny that you bring this up, because most of my friends (I'm in my late 20's), they ALL have kids and have been married/or are. It's just shocking to me, to settle down and have brats so soon in our lives! It's like, can we enjoy time to ourselves?!?!?
Quick note: It's the same for girls looking for guys, they're either divorced and have kids of their own to support! =/
Good luck!
2007-12-18 14:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by Michi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a reason they are 30 and single and if they don't have kids maybe its b/c they don't want any. But maybe the fact that you refer to ppls children as love trophies explains why your single. sorry but truth huts man!
2007-12-18 14:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by erin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋