ugh..so their is this guy right and i have liked him for like 3 to 4 years and dated once and i tell myself i am in love with him but im only 14 can i really be in love? and now i have a b/f and i realllllllly like him this is our 3 time dating! and now im starting to talk to the kid im "in love" with again and now idk if this is really right for me to be with my ex again if i still have these BIG feelings for the other and he even says he misses me WAT DO I DO??
2007-12-18 13:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by souljagurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to both of them. You're right, at 14, you shouldn't be worrying about falling in love. You should be concerned about your school work, getting into college, etc. Your parents let you date at 14? Not a good idea.
2007-12-18 13:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope perfectly normal to like 2 guys at the same time, anyway you are still 14, just contemplate on the feeling, enjoy it, no its not love i assure you at that very young age, its too early to say that it is love, tomorrow you would change, everyday we change, just dont do anything stupid like get pregnant something like that and you would get through this any how.circumstances change, go hang out with the guy who makes you laugh and have a good time, go out and be with the guy who makes you interested in school, who keeps you inspired with whatever hobby you have, dump the guy who makes you depressed.
2007-12-18 21:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14. Too young to be worrying about dating. You are overcome with"crushes" here and "in loves" there... you'll get over it as you age, then you can pursue a real relationship.
2007-12-18 21:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Agappae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about guys and start studying, immediately. Your letter suggests you are in danger of becoming a bubble-head, that you need to begin taking education seriously, and that there is no time to waste.
2007-12-18 21:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Newmedicine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so perfectly normal. your still young and live it to the fullest :] dont let anyone tell you didnt like as many guys as you want but dont lead them on, it leads to a heavy heart, and you hurt people you care about. && i say just be friends with both of them, and in time just see what happens.
2007-12-18 21:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by Meghan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is probably a bit young! Ingnor 'Della' above me-he'l get the help he needs!
2007-12-18 21:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the new guy
2007-12-18 21:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by ChocolateCoveredGoodness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oohhh tough decision. umm well idk. i say stay with your new boyfriend if you really like him. it would be kinda lame for you if you dumped him and then went out with your ex. b/c then what if you guys break up and you like your other bf! tell me how it works outt
2007-12-18 21:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by hellllllo (; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur to younr this ****, stick to barbies
2007-12-18 21:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
its not love, its infatuation
2007-12-18 21:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋