one minute i luv my boyfriend then the next minute i hate him
2007-12-18 13:40:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hormones,
or you got the hots for someone else
2007-12-18 13:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by im_booger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL honey, that's the way the cookie crumbles...and LOVE AND HATE are very strong emotions and words...if your boyfriend is mean or does something to make you feel a loathing for him, then he's not the man for you . But as humans, even when we love each other - we're still gonna get on each other's nerves, still going to fight and still going to end relationships - that's a part of growing and life. Re-evaluate how you feel about him and remember that having a boyfriend isn't the most important thing in the world - feeling good about yourself, however, is pretty high up there. Good Luck, sweetie!
2007-12-18 21:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by *Meg* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bipolar??
Maybe U Guyz Hang Out TOO Much
Take A Really Small Break
2007-12-18 21:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Romina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably just have mixed feelings and this relationship isn't going to last because you can't love AND hate someone like that and go far in life with that person. Find someone that you love ALL the time!
2007-12-18 21:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by fYi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called insecurity and growing up. Welcome to the more adult world. I'm 40 and was just facing the same dilemma a few weeks ago. When you're not being treated the way you deserve, you hate him because you love him. Go figure....Tell him what you need and what makes you feel loved. Find out what makes him feel loved.
2007-12-18 21:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by rabbit4041 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's normal ... it's part of any relationship.
better still go about asking yourself why do you love him and also why do you hate him.
a relationship has to do with preparing for the future ... for one where you will be together if possible forever. so there is the need to really weigh things seriously.
but then enjoy life as much as you can.
2007-12-18 21:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by wolfbane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones?
2007-12-18 21:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend shouldn't piss you off that much, so easily. You may want to reconsider this relationship. A boyfriend should be someone who you are compatible with.
2007-12-18 21:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by karly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would be normal that you hate your man 4 loving him. That is the best answer I can give you.
2007-12-18 21:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you actually love him, I think that you are just using that word instead of the more appropriate word, infatuation. With love, you will always love, infatuations come and go.
2007-12-18 21:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate and love coexist. don't worry too much. if you love him from the roots in yourself, you will eventually have kind feelings, not passionate. everything takes time. don't force anything, take it as it comes, be patient.
2007-12-18 21:45:07 · answer #11 · answered by lixinxin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋