ok me and my bf have been going out for like 9 months i am 13 just telling u that but anyway i think i want to break up with him but we have been great friends and i think i like him more as a friend that as a bf but i am not sure and there is this other guy and i think i like him but hes going out with my friend brittany and idk they might break up but help need some advice on how to know if u should break up with some one
OOOOO AND HE GOES TO JACKSON SO ITS A LONGDISTANT relasonship and i play sports and have to keep up my grades so calling him and all that i dont really have time for but idk HELP ME <:(
2007-12-18 13:36:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this situation does not sound fun!! if you really like him, then stay with him. 9 months is a very long time. but maybe you need a break from him if its a long distance relationship and you're pretty busy. call him up and just tell him you'd rather be friends, but don't make it drawn out or awkard, because like what if you see him somewhere. and as for the boy you like, sounds like he has a gf and that since its one of your friends you should probably just leave them alone unless he happens to like you. hopee that helps!!
2007-12-18 13:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you don't have much time for BFs at all, which is a good thing. Not good to spend all the time focusing on some guy, when there is life to be lived, out there - school, activities, other friends, a job at some point -you know - life! First of all, you are really young to be dating at all (I know, I'm sorry, you don't want to hear that, but I am going to be honest w you!) So, it's probably good that you are just feeling more friendly feelings for your BF. You don't really need all fluttery romatic entanglements now, anyway. Second, it is a really bad idea to jump straight from one relationship into another, so the idea of dumping someone to go with another is especially bad. Maybe you should think about taking a rest from dating at all - that will help clear your mind as to whether you actually want to break up w your BF. And it will make things REALLY funky with your friend Brittany if she thinks that you have anything to do with engineering her breakup; have you thought about that?
2007-12-18 21:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could lie. Tell him your parents found out and are freaking out about you having a bf. A girl did that to me when I was your age, and it worked. I didn't find out til years later and I just laughed about it. It was the best way she could've let me go.
2007-12-18 21:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by ChocolateCoveredGoodness 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont think you should do that to your friend even if they are or may break up.you should never go out with a friends fam member or ex cuz it can create problems.you dont want to lose your friend huh?love comes and goes but real friends dont.
2007-12-18 21:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by oracio z 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you honestly expect me to read all that unpunctuated dribble?
2007-12-18 21:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋