Singles & Dating - 29 November 2007

Older or younger or it doesn't matter?

2007-11-29 14:56:15 · 9 answers · asked by Traveler 4

I dated a guy for six months -- he was smart,sexy, funny, sweet at first but quickly became detached, selfish and verbally abusive (disguised as jokes). He stopped wanting to have sex, wanting to go away or spend time alone. So I took a hint, said let's end it -- he agreed and I was sad but relieved. We e-mailed briefly for about a month and one day he asked to meet up . He said he wanted to try again, thet he took me for granted. I agreed with hesitation, because I had been hurt before. Five days later, he showed up at my apt with a bag of my clothes and said "I am selfish and immature , and I know it sounds pathetic but I can't give you what you need." I lost it. I cried like a baby -- he left. He said he really wants to be friends (we were friends first) I can't imagine not having him in my life, but part of me thinks he doesn't deserve my friendship. What would you do? Is it possible to be his friend now -- its been the most painful thing ever because I was in love.

2007-11-29 14:52:19 · 5 answers · asked by seeksadvice28 1

Alright. I have a problem. I'm only ever interested in guys that are 3 or 4 years older than me.
I think the boys my age don't have the mental capacity to handle my difficult and complex personality. Also, I'm just really mature, and most people think I'm 3 or 4 years older than I am upon meeting me.
I'm a teen, also. Early teens...

So what should I do? Should I go for the guys I like, even though they're old? Or should I just not date at all until the guys my age are smart?

2007-11-29 14:49:55 · 5 answers · asked by Rose 4

ok, so i've been talking this guy for a while now on myspace. he's amazing!! he's everything and anything I have ever wanted. no words to describe. I mean he is extremely smart!! he rap, write songs, very athletic, smart, talnted, loving, caring. we've been very open with eachother with anything that has to do with our feelings and our lives.
i really really really like him. it goes both ways. if you see the things he says and how he says..it's nothing i've ever heard before. we want to meet. there is a distance between our home town. long drive from here to there but possible if wanted. we havent talked on phone yet or that sort, but he knows more of me than many other is my life and same with him.honestly, I want to be with him. i really want to be his girl, and I know if we clicked like we do online same in real, we coul work something out regardless of disstance. but how does this work? i've never talked to a guy like this online and never met one this way...what is the next step?

2007-11-29 14:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

on the whole, im much more optimistic than i ever used to be, and can find something good in everyday, but a problem has been plaguing me for as long as i can remember. maybe my brain is just hard-wired for this but more than anything i want love. i've always likes guys and no one has ever really liked me back. i had a pathetic little relationship back in highschool, and since then there's just been nothing. ive liked guys, i like one now and i got really close with him, physically and it was wonderful but i know he doesnt want a relationship right now and i guess it's set me off. i cant talk to friends about this because i dont want to sound depressed or self-depricating but part of me thinks that i will be alone, romantically, forever, and that noone will ever like me as much as i might like them. people always say "oh, it will happen, i know it" and i try to keep hope, but how do they know!? i really think people say that out of habit, just to make you feel better. thoughts??

2007-11-29 14:39:07 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa B 2

Ok So Me and my ex broke up relli over nuthing, Its been a couple months he hasent seen any body yet but i?
Have And It hasent worked out too well....Now we had a good relationship b4 this we dated for about 1yr and 1/2 and it was good

The Kind where everybody comments on how they wish it was..

Well Now he has changed alot and I relli miss him I would love to get to go back out with him

But he Said he dont like me no more like that
can I fix this, I dont wanna move on so dont tell me to

Its Been Totally hard without him
its only been 7 months since we broke up
but his sister is my bestfriend ?

Any tips On how to get him to like me again ?
or on what to do .

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I DONT WANNA MOVE ON SO DONT TELL ME TOO

2007-11-29 14:37:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex broke up with me 2 months ago to sort out college stuff, his feelings changed and due to our busy schedules we were seeing less and less of each other which caused arguing. He wants to try again and Im all for it but not now. I just am very stressed with college, working 2 part time jobs now and its just going to be the same arguments if we try now. However I dont want him to think I am throwing his reason from 2 months ago back into his face because Im not. I would love to be friends and see how things go but I dont want him to think he has to wait for me if he finds someone new. I love him but its not the right time as bad as that sounds...What do I do?

2007-11-29 14:36:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi I'm 14 and there is this girl on my bus that's 13 but a grade behind me. She sits with me for most the ride home pretty much every day. I need a good way to as for her number cuz I rele want to get to know her better we've known each other for a bot over a month and we talk online and on the bus and I've grown to like her so I was planning to call her later on and possibly as her out. Neither of us have ever gone out with ne one so u. An tell I don't have much experience please help!!!!!!!

2007-11-29 14:35:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-29 14:35:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, here's the thing. Her boyfriend tells her that he is busy. He says that he needs to study for a chemistry exam. But, then he tells her to call him so that he can "talk his voice away" with her. So, she calls him again and again but he won't pick up the phone. Eventually, after two weeks, someone does but it is his best friend who picks up the phone and after finding out it is her, he hungs up on her, telling her that her boyfriend is still busy studying for this "exam". It's passed two weeks! And he's in high school, not college. Any guesses as to why this guy is doing this to her?

2007-11-29 14:35:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anthony C 4

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2007-11-29 14:33:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

usually if a girl calls a guy a psycho the guy gets the message,, what about the type of guy who just dosnt give an f no matter what you do or call him?

2007-11-29 14:31:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, do you? like if she had a pretty face and a fit body do you care about the nose?

2007-11-29 14:30:06 · 15 answers · asked by ♣swirley_gumdrops♣ 4

2007-11-29 14:29:20 · 4 answers · asked by chicken2008 5

do u tell someone u love them if only known him 4 about6weeks but im in love how do i talk to him about it

2007-11-29 14:29:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-29 14:27:18 · 1 answers · asked by Serengetti 3

If he has been pursuing her for about 5 months.

2007-11-29 14:24:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-29 14:24:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Doesn't seem to be giving me much luck... It seems so much more fun and easy to change.... but doesn't feel right....

2007-11-29 14:20:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-29 14:18:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I jsut can't tell. Is there anything that will give it away??

2007-11-29 14:17:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend dumped me a month ago and i miss him a lot! i loved him. well, tomorrow would have been our year anniversary and im not sure how im going to get threw it. i have to see him at school a lot so if anyone has any ideas for me please share.

2007-11-29 14:15:59 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been broken up for 6 months. Until now, he wouldnt discuss any feelings or why we broke up in the first place. He treated me very poorly.

And now he's regretting it. It took me moving on to finally make him see he was in the wrong and he wasn't treating me the way I deserved to be....now he's trying to make up for it.

He's sent a letter in the mail every day for the last 3 wks. They're cute and sweet and something I wouldve loved when we were together. But he didn't treat me right then-- he shut me out, was very cold, distant, and selfish...and now thinks that by going out of his way it will make it all ok.

I can't forget the way he made me feel. He insists that wasn't the "real him." But I'm in a better place and refuse to go back.

How do I explain to him that the letters arent going to change anything? I've told him again and again. I've stopped acknowledging them. I don't want to hurt him further or be rude. But he wont give up.

2007-11-29 14:14:42 · 20 answers · asked by autumn 1

2007-11-29 14:09:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so i can turn my boyfriend on pretty easily, even with just words...but i want to send him over the edge. any suggestions?

p.s. i'm 18 so no mom answers please

2007-11-29 14:09:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this is kinda a long story but i love this girls so much and i would do literally anything to get back together with her.

k so im eating diner and she (my gf) calls me and says, "hey wats up?" and im like sorry i cant talk and se says, "no dont hang up dont go if you do ill break up with u" and im like okkk....... and so then she says "actually, we need to break up, im really sorry its just that i dont feel like were bf or gf (sumthing like that) i feel like we should b friends." and im like, "o.... ok" i ddnt wanna show i was sad cuz i was at diner and my parents were lookin at me. then i said "bi" and hung up.

after diner i went into my room and was depressed as hell. i kno we hav e been goin out for only 3 weeks but i feel so happy with her and wenever im with her theres nothing in the world that would make me sad or worried.

what do i do to make her like me again so i can go back out with her? cuz i still hav feelings for her and ild do ne thing to go back out with her

2007-11-29 14:06:43 · 20 answers · asked by Mike 2

if you like a boy alot and he liked you back ....... but everyone else hated him including your prarents so they told you you couldnt talk to him ...... because they heard somethings that werent true so now they dont like him ........ but they have never met him only saw him once ........... ( the things they heard was that he was using me for sex)

2007-11-29 14:04:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was on the bus from part time job and i was sitting at the back and this guy came on the bus and walked to the back and said "wats up" and i just said hi. then there was silence for a few seconds and then he said "can i ask you your name" and i looked at him weird and said no and then he just turned around and went to the front of the bus and sat down lol. i kinda felt bad afterwards lol but why did he ask? kinda strange dont u think?

2007-11-29 14:02:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this guy is asking me out tomorrow
how i know is he told me
hurry and answer tonight by 7:30pm
wat should i say
he is soooo hot long light brown hair and is a skater
girl's need your opinion's

2007-11-29 14:00:55 · 14 answers · asked by j.valona 2

please help heres the question
summarize the structure of DNA and the process of making protein . In you paper explain the following terms DNa, mRNa, codon, protein, amino acid, nucleus, cytoplasm, ribosome, nitrogen bases.
I appreciate your help.

2007-11-29 14:00:21 · 1 answers · asked by jeremy_rrush_ 2