ok, so i've been talking this guy for a while now on myspace. he's amazing!! he's everything and anything I have ever wanted. no words to describe. I mean he is extremely smart!! he rap, write songs, very athletic, smart, talnted, loving, caring. we've been very open with eachother with anything that has to do with our feelings and our lives.
i really really really like him. it goes both ways. if you see the things he says and how he says..it's nothing i've ever heard before. we want to meet. there is a distance between our home town. long drive from here to there but possible if wanted. we havent talked on phone yet or that sort, but he knows more of me than many other is my life and same with him.honestly, I want to be with him. i really want to be his girl, and I know if we clicked like we do online same in real, we coul work something out regardless of disstance. but how does this work? i've never talked to a guy like this online and never met one this way...what is the next step?
2007-11-29 14:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I live with my dad and I dont know how he would react if I said i will drive to him. I told him about him he says well, if he ever moves here you can meet...but that's not what I meant. i just didnt wan tto get tomuch into it with him. but what do we do? how do you move to next step? im scared to be shy on phone withhim because my feelings are strong. i think of him 24\7. ugh! help this is crazy!!! I want to be with him so bad!!
2007-11-29 14:43:33 · update #1
FYI it's not a scam. I saw vids of his on youtube first, and thats hwo I got his myspace. we talked there and I asked for it. he posts his music and stuff up there so I know for a fact its him for real. no scam
2007-11-29 15:14:03 · update #2
first step is talk on the phone next is for him to get a cam and you can see that he is telling the truth about how he looks --- if all is ok he should really be coming to see you (yes i am old fashioned) --- meet for coffee somewhere public and you can get a measure of him safely ---- if all goes well then a meal and take it from there BUT phone calls and cam are really essential to make sure he is who he says he is ---- best wishes
2007-11-29 14:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tough one. you must first find out that he is who he says he is. you have to talk to him. make sure that it is not a scam or this is not some crazy lunatic playing a game to mess with you and in the end hurt you emotionally because there are people out there that would do something like that. next step would be to talk to him on the phone. make sure you know that its him, and if the conversation turned out to be that he wants you to come see him and you must first mail him some money DON'T! it is a scam if that's the case. however, if he's legit, then talk to each other. send pics if you're ready, nothing provacative of course. then one day meet him in person. but have him come to you rather than you to him. that way your father will be there in case something go wrong (hope not), and you'll be in a more comfortable place. then if it progress then you can visit him next time. you must talk to him first, make sure its a real thing and not just a fake incident. hope all goes well!
2007-11-29 14:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's amazing how the internet can provide the perfect person for you. I can be anyone I want to be on the internet and I can even convince you I'm wonderful, smart, talented, loving, caring, and certainly I'm more open with you than anyone else I've ever known. I'm also 5'10", beautiful, blond, and etc,etc,etc. I'm really 4'10, chunky, cute, brunette...but how will you know the truth??? It's easy to fall for Mr. Perfect because he doesn't fart, burp, say things he doesn't mean, annoy you, leave the toilet seat up, drink the last Coke, eat the last piece of pie, blah, blah, blah. Did you know he's 48 years old and is a registered sex offender? How would you know? Show a little more caution when you give yourself to someone online.
2007-11-29 14:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by rabbit4041 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U rly should talk to him on the fone. U never kno. He could b a girl or some perverted old man. U never kno. Pics of this guy could b someone the real person knows or stole pics from. Myspace is crazy! U need to talk to ur dad. Take his judgement. Plus cant u find guys u see in person in ur town??? Why fall 4 a online relationship? It could never work out or this guy could b totally diff in real life.
2007-11-29 14:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Rawr I'm a turtle? ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say this but its a bad idea...stay away from him, meeting people online is risky..you will never know if its all a lie.....dont fall for people online, because its not naturally developed. Stay safe and be careful of what you're doing. Words can never be stronger then in the eyes of truth..
2007-11-29 14:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the first step is talk on the phone..make sure it's not a girl on the other end or someone else trying to be someone else..because you know those fakers out there...
you can't trust anyone on myspace anymore.
2007-11-29 14:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by love2help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋