How to get my girlfriend back?

Question

ok this is kinda a long story but i love this girls so much and i would do literally anything to get back together with her.

k so im eating diner and she (my gf) calls me and says, "hey wats up?" and im like sorry i cant talk and se says, "no dont hang up dont go if you do ill break up with u" and im like okkk....... and so then she says "actually, we need to break up, im really sorry its just that i dont feel like were bf or gf (sumthing like that) i feel like we should b friends." and im like, "o.... ok" i ddnt wanna show i was sad cuz i was at diner and my parents were lookin at me. then i said "bi" and hung up.

after diner i went into my room and was depressed as hell. i kno we hav e been goin out for only 3 weeks but i feel so happy with her and wenever im with her theres nothing in the world that would make me sad or worried.

what do i do to make her like me again so i can go back out with her? cuz i still hav feelings for her and ild do ne thing to go back out with her

o ya and she said that she just wants to be friends

Answer 1

You don't. She has to want to get back with you. People don't make other people do what they don't want to do.

Answer 2

I think if you ask her to join you as a friend to do things then you will be around her. If she goes then that means she isn't as over you as she thought and you have a chance to get closer. If she won't even go out to a movie or play mini golf or something with you and a bunch of friends then she is definitely preoccupied with other things (or another person) there are plenty of nice girls out there, she isn't the only one. If it turns out that things don't work out with her, maybe you can meet someone else if you go out with your buddies, have fun and be yourself. It'll happen for you. Don't lose hope.

Answer 3

If you have been going out with her for only 3 weeks... that isn't alot of time for you to feel so hurt.... you hardy know a person after just 3 weeks....if she is so inmature to get upset for you not being able to talk to her at dinner.... that is pretty pityful.... you need to let this one go..... you can't make her like you.... it just has to be there...

Answer 4

you cant make someone like you.
you just have to move on.
it sounds hard, but you can do it.
try focusing on other stuff, school, whatever.
beleive me, women make up 51% of the american population. you have a higher chance of getting a gf, then girls have of getting a bf.

but still tell her you miss her and would like to get back with her

Answer 5

Don't "make her like you" at all. Tell her the truth. Tell her you still have feelings for her. Yes, love is about compromise. But don't lose yourself in the process.

If she's worth it. Things will look up for you.

Answer 6

i think first u juss have to talk to her and ask her why did she juss break with u and with no reason u know or juss ask her may be she doesnt feel the same feeling as she did a couple weeks ago and if it wont work juss try to forget her and find someone else i think u will be juss fine u no because theres a lot of other gurls who u could like and who wont break ur heart because of stupid reason idk lol.....

Answer 7

call her up and tell her that you are sorry for not acting like a bf to her and see if tht works

Answer 8

you know what?
if you love her
thats to bad
there is someone out there that
with make you way more happier and stuff
and shees not worth it
she ruined it
but if you love her enough dont let go :)

Answer 9

mayb jus sit and relax wit her for a while and get closer to her, cause most likely she doesnt feel the same way bout u that u do bout her

Answer 10

Forget it. Find another one. Those feelings are easily transferable between girls. From certain angles they all look the same anyway.