Singles & Dating - 29 November 2007

At a younger age that was all fine and dandy, but now I'm in my mid 40's I have taken a different approch. There is this "one" that I have told I want to get to know better. I enjoy her company everytime we are together. We are not dating exclusively, I have found out that she has slept with someone since dating. She also knows that I know but we haven't talked about it. I have since distanced myself from her. She now calls and says she misses me. Is she worth the effort?

2007-11-29 10:19:44 · 50 answers · asked by david 4

I know i like funny guys. Is it the same for the other way around?

2007-11-29 10:16:07 · 16 answers · asked by jj 2

ok here's the situation.Me and my girl been 2gether for about a year and 2 months.We're in love and everything,she got my name tatooed on her back.she moved in with me and my mom 4 months into the relationship.My mom said she can stay until we get enough money to get our own place.
Here's the problem though.She always wants to go and see her family.I know this sounds crazy but I thought when you in a relationship you see ya family less often.She wants to see her family every month or every 2 months.I think that it is too much considering that we love being around each other.
Me and her fam dont really get along like that.I told her its no problem talkin on the phone everyday but why do you have to go see them that often?I told her settled down couples dont run and see they fam every 1 or 2 months.she thinks Im trying to keep her away from her family.
What should I do about this situation?Am i the wrong one here?


by the way Im 23 and my girl is 20

2007-11-29 10:14:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering

2007-11-29 10:12:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is my aunt,s husband's nephiew related to me? And is it okay if i go out with him?Because this boy stares at me a lot and he is very cute or should we just be like very close pals?

2007-11-29 10:10:48 · 14 answers · asked by cuty 1

2007-11-29 10:10:13 · 6 answers · asked by Jayde A 3

I'm still trying to get over her. Ur. D:

2007-11-29 10:10:05 · 5 answers · asked by Elephant 3

what do you say to a guy thats at your school, but you dont know him....and you really want to talk to him but dont know how?!!

2007-11-29 10:09:13 · 26 answers · asked by <3 1

Its been 2 months, he was my first love. At first I was terrible, couldnt stop crying but Im definately better than the mess I was 2 months ago. For the most part im fine because Ive gotten to the point where I dont think about him and when I do I dont stay focused on it. But occasionally I think about it alot and I start getting upset again...Seriously when will the pain go away?

2007-11-29 10:09:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't been in a relationship in about 3.5 years. I've been out to eat with girls, to the movies, etc. but I get this feeling that they're not seeing me as more than a friend.

I think somehow I inadvertently send a message that says I'm not date-able. And therefore I fall into the friends trap.

And every guy knows that once you become a girl's friend, there will never be anything more. (that's why guys stop talking to girls, fyi)

So how can I do a little PR work for my love life? Do I need to temporarily date the biggest gossiper in town? (that was a joke) But seriously, what's my deal?

2007-11-29 10:05:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was wondering if u could picture the perfect kiss a girl could give u how would it be? And please do not include your penis or a Bl*w J*b as any of your answers :)

2007-11-29 10:01:37 · 3 answers · asked by Jerzigurl 1

I am not asking this because I want to fish for compliments. I am asking this because I am at an absolute loss as to what I should do...

The question behind this post is simply am I pretty? Am I thin/should I stop? Am I attractive? I have had a few boyfriends in the past, but the relationships were short and meaningless. I used to be a very fat kid, and was heading for a miserable path. I couple of years ago, i decided to shed the weight, and 6 moths later i was 30lbs lighter. Now, whenever I look in the mirror, all i see is the fat kid i used to be... the depression that resulted from this caused me to not eat for several weeks. I'd eat plain lettuce when i felt faint, and drank a lot. (this was recent) I lost some more weight, but now i don't know how to stop. I am not eating healithly again, but i work out constantly, still trying to shed the weight that i don't know if i have.

please help me...
look at the pics and respond to this question.
http://www.myspace.com/blu_eyed_huski

2007-11-29 09:51:38 · 13 answers · asked by Lily S 1

I do kind of feel it is becoming a sort of a "trend." It's happening way more now than ever ( yes I know becuase society is more expecting blah blah blah) but i've heard black men say that they feel black women are too assertive, loud, brash etc. they get this stereotypical thing in their head about black women, and just automatically most of the time don’t give them a chance or the time of day. So in a way some men are rejecting black women.

2007-11-29 09:51:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

do girls care if you have a stutter or will most of them not care?

2007-11-29 09:47:33 · 3 answers · asked by Only1Ronaldo 1

he tells me he loves me and nvr wants to loose me and kisses me all the time then he breaks up with me and wants to be freinds again what do i do????

2007-11-29 09:47:00 · 18 answers · asked by cheer babe 2

If you were talking to a guy at work and slept with him then found out he was a scum bag and started hooking up with other girls at work too, would you tell those girls?? or let them find out like you did....?

2007-11-29 09:45:37 · 4 answers · asked by brneyedgrrl80 3

So my ex boyfriend who I'm still madly in love with works at the same company as I do. We had a fairly messy break up where he made some poor choices ( I know I get some blame) He broke up with me on the phone after 9 months of dating and a year of freindship before. Then he called me up and told me to move on after two weeks as he'd met a girl at a bar. We were on a break. So we work together, still call each other and one month after the break up and two weeks after the idiodic phone call he refuses to make eye contact with me when we're out to lunch with our group and looks like he wants to die if he sits by me. So my quesiton is what's with the lack of eye contact he looks anywhere but at me and denies he's doing it? He knows I want him back and if he works to regain my trust I can certainly forgive him. Is this shame and regret or a he hates me and wishes I weren't there? I dunno peeps I could use some psychoanalysis on this one.

2007-11-29 09:39:56 · 1 answers · asked by Mara_51 1

Ok so I have a probelm because I have a boyfriend but for some reason even though I really like him it just seems like I cant stop flirting with other guys especialy his friends. and anudr problem is his friends totaly flirt back and this one guy even tried to kiss me. I really like him but he just confronted me about it at school and told me to stop flirting with his friends and I seriously tried my hardest but i JUST CANT STOP! help!

2007-11-29 09:39:47 · 3 answers · asked by lolaaaaachica 1

I was going to the club last weekend when in the window of a truck a girl I no has an ipod and it was down. no one was around so I took it. I have guilty feelings about this, honest. but what I am wanting to no now is how do I get it back to her??? should I??? IF SO HOW????? IW ILL NOT CONFESS!!!!!!!!!!! should I keep it??? It has ALOT OF SONGS ON IT THAT I REALLY LIKE..........Im kinda getting used to it like its mine, but really its not......plus my doughter scratched up a little bit. what to do now???? I cant just throw it back in her the bed of her truck caus somone ELCE will steall it :(

I messed up BIG TIME....althogh I hate the girl and she really kinda deserves it...hehe

2007-11-29 09:39:19 · 25 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

i am not just looking for a date i am looking to find someone new someone who i can get to know and maybe be together i would like to find someone who is careing sweet nice and funny i just can't seem to find what i am looking for can anyone help me.

2007-11-29 09:37:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

You are attached. Some other guy asks you out so you decline him. However, you like the other guy but you will not two time. The other guy asks to remain friends.

What would you do? Would you remain friends knowing you like the other guy or would you cease all contact so not to get tempted?

Also, the fact that you like the other guy - does that suggest you are not entirely happy with your current partner?

2007-11-29 09:37:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

.my sister has a boyfriend and they have been together for about 4 years. i don't like him. Everytime my sister leaves or everytime i am in the house alone with him he starts asking me questions like do u have a boyfriend or do u like any of the guys at school. One time when my mom and my sister went to florida they left me at the house with him and he would do inappropiate things like getting out of the shower naked and would open the door knowing he was naked and that i could see him. One nighi was lying in my room with the lights off and he came in. He told me that i would expell alot of gas and that i needed something special to fix it. He told me i should pull my pants down. I told him that i didn't want to and he keep asking me too. I know that happened a long time ago but i still remember those nights when he would try to get me to do things. i feel unconfortable with him everytime my sister leaves me with him but if i tell her, my whole family could fall apart what do i do??

2007-11-29 09:36:48 · 6 answers · asked by Jerzigurl 1

Will a 18 year old senior ever like a 14 year old freshman?

2007-11-29 09:35:23 · 6 answers · asked by <3 1

... Why won't anybody let themselves be unattached ? Isn't having a romantic partner the same thing as saying "I need a woman to be happy !" or "I need a man to be happy !" ? If saying "I don't need a woman to be happy !" is SO COOL, why aren't people more reluctant to have a relationship ?

2007-11-29 09:34:36 · 4 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3

2007-11-29 09:30:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is a LOT more experiences than me and whenever wr making out he always tries to go to the nxt level and I always push him away and tell him to stop. I REALLY like him and ive even threatened to stop making out with him if he dusnt stop but he DUSNT GET IT!!! What do I do?

2007-11-29 09:29:28 · 28 answers · asked by lolaaaaachica 1

2007-11-29 09:23:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

loved somebody so much it made you cry?

2007-11-29 09:20:49 · 27 answers · asked by jaci 3

2007-11-29 09:19:06 · 7 answers · asked by g 3

... alright so when i take this girl on a first date ... assuming it goes enough to where i wanna make a move .. like just a kiss lol ... when will i know when that time is ..the right time

2007-11-29 09:18:23 · 16 answers · asked by Mike 2