I haven't been in a relationship in about 3.5 years. I've been out to eat with girls, to the movies, etc. but I get this feeling that they're not seeing me as more than a friend.
I think somehow I inadvertently send a message that says I'm not date-able. And therefore I fall into the friends trap.
And every guy knows that once you become a girl's friend, there will never be anything more. (that's why guys stop talking to girls, fyi)
So how can I do a little PR work for my love life? Do I need to temporarily date the biggest gossiper in town? (that was a joke) But seriously, what's my deal?
2007-11-29 10:05:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please explain when you say "ask her out". When I hear that I think "hey, you want to go get dinner?"
Is there some script for asking someone out that someone forgot to send me a long time ago?
2007-11-29 10:17:07 · update #1
If you believe you're not dateable others will too. You may need to give yourself a little ego boost prior to going out.
2007-11-29 10:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could just be the way you act when you're with the girl, maybe you're treating her more like a friend than a potential girlfriend.
be very chivalrous. open the door for her, compliment her, etc etc. there's not a lot of that anymore. be creative :D
good luck!!
2007-11-29 18:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by unexpectedromance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way that you describe what you do with them most friends do.What you need to do is just ask them out.
2007-11-29 18:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋